Reforming democracy might be better seen from a birdseye view of what it should look like, or at least it would be more fruitful than grumbling reactions about the behaviours of particular assholes in the world.
Firstly, to quote some old fart general “You fight with the army you have, not the army you want.” There are plenty of assholes around and many seek out positions of power no matter what system you put in place. Complaining that someone in power is an asshole is like complaining that the sky is blue. So build a system that can ‘safely’ be run by corrupt assholes. Capitalism is actually brilliant for controlling assholes, it limits power to how much money you have rather than the previous “do everything I say or you die” systems. And rather than hoarding limited resources assholes actually want you to take their physical resources in exchange for numbers in a computer somewhere. Capitalism convinces assholes to actually help society in exchange for what is essentially point scoring.
So reforming “democracy”… so what we’d really be arguing about is how people live their lives. What should individuals be able to decide for themselves, what things should be chosen by popularity (aka. you getting to decide how other people live) or should official decision makers be chosen by popularity instead.
The question then comes down to which areas of life are each of these a better idea. You don’t want a committee choosing what you have for breakfast or what you wear, and it can also be argued that criminals shouldn’t be dealt with by the victims of the crime but by a theoretically objective third party.
While it could be argued that democracy is interfering with people’s lives, people are always going to try to control other people, and when there’s no power structure there’s a power vacuum just waiting for some other controlling bastards to come and fill.
So perhaps the question is how do you not just allow but force individuals to fill up some of that power vacuum themselves, even if they don’t want to, for the sake of making sure there’s no power vacuum to be had. Arming the population is one way. The creation of a publicly funded urban military is another. Countries with no police often have gangs or militias in control instead, an unprotected populace is easy pickings for assholes.
Part of democracy’s beauty is it’s anonymity, it’s ability to avoid the social pressures that come with being the first to speak out or with backing an unpopular opinion. To mould society to fit what people actually want rather than what they may feel pressured to say if their answer would effect their reputation.
The internet could be the greatest step forward in democracy in history, so I partly think reforming democracy means how do we create a online system that uniquely identifies individuals in a way that guarantees there is only one vote per person, yet also keeps them socially anonymous.
I think we have the technology now to allow people to fill out a servey about what their individual opinions are in order of importance. With a sufficient system there would no longer be a question of “what do people need” but how best to deal with what they need. Then again this system is prone to people often not having a clue about what they actually need, with advertising’s ability to sway opinion more than anyone cares to admit.