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aletheia wrote:And often others need a well-conceived and accurate "malice", or brutal honesty without regard to their concerns, interests, desires or short-term good. In this way thay are confronted more openly with either a truth which by definition represents for them a limit to be recognized, or a falsehood against which they must mobilize their own being and truths. Or, they are confronted with their own denial and evasion mechanisms, or... with their own maliciousness of response. Either way this can lead to a positive and/or "necessary" development-change.
Possession of "malice", as in the child-at-play who acts maliciously even without malicious intent, or perhaps even with malicious intent, could be an early naivete that must be "broken" in order to become, at first, the regret/suffering of awareness and an understanding of one's responsibility (power) toward others, and then later, as this suffering is subsequently broken apart, one becomes free to act maliciously as needed with respect to certain needs, goals or ends. At first this "as needed" is served merely by the flexing and expressing of this new power itself, its coming into itself (this may be and often is mis-interpreted as a mere regression to a pre-refined maliciousness of intent). Later, as this power matures and continues to be refined, a new space for compassion and restraint opens up and begins to delimit the malicious power which has grown more suceptible to conscious recognition and is able to be put more directly to use serving one's ends. At this point, the value of compassion "for its own sake" naturally trumps that of maliciousness "for its own sake", but the latter is able, if needed, to over-value the first given certain situational demands. This would be an applied malice, which perhaps would take on a form of ambivalence in order to be capable of manifesting its effects/consequences in light of the otherwise compassionate limitation/s of (a higher acculturated) conscious being. Later still, I would imagine that it would be possible to apply controlled malice consciously without utilizing a form of ambivalence or ignorance; this would become possible once one's compassion has attained a similarly refined (self-conscious,controlled) form.
Mo_ wrote:I think we learn to run, jump, and sharpen a spear when we keep company with lions. Call this "self-perception" if you want. The same thing goes on at the dinner table, in polite company.
How are you?
What do you do?
These are typical conversation openers. It's not exactly hidden why they would be; it's a straightfoward way of asking you for your strengths and weaknesses. And when you don't like your own answers---you will exaggerate and lie without fail, or else pass the whole truth off as if it were only half. The questions that follow are always designed to detect just that. Do you think a stranger cares for you? No, of course not. And as for your family member, when he asks, he just wants to know what you contribute to the tribe. It's embarrassing that we're no more subtle than this.
"Playful" malice? What exactly is the distinction between malice "playful" or not. I think there may be none. Degrees, sure.
Suppose I tell a polite joke. You will smile. Funny how that is. ...I've had an effect on you. I've made myself felt. Is it any wonder why you show your teeth? Why do you think creatures in the animal kingdom do show their teeth? You will show your teeth just when someone even looks at you. Degrees, perhaps. That's all.
We're creatures who'd prefer to hunt. By the way, I'm talking about polite conversations. And do you share polite jokes with someone who plays dead? You don't even bother. Sure, in small doses, this is all good. How else are you going to learn to run, jump, and throw a spear? Call it "self-perception" if you want---it's just licking your wound.
I am a river.
fuse wrote:aletheia wrote:And often others need a well-conceived and accurate "malice", or brutal honesty without regard to their concerns, interests, desires or short-term good. In this way thay are confronted more openly with either a truth which by definition represents for them a limit to be recognized, or a falsehood against which they must mobilize their own being and truths. Or, they are confronted with their own denial and evasion mechanisms, or... with their own maliciousness of response. Either way this can lead to a positive and/or "necessary" development-change.
Well this makes a lot of sense. Seemingly good advice for both those who withhold their more negative emotions as well as for those who overwhelm others indiscriminately with a puffed up show malice and frustration.
I find that when I am able to be genuine with others (i.e. neither exaggerating for effect nor suppressing a major feeling) they feel more free to respond in kind.
aletheia wrote:None of that makes even the slightest bit of sense.
Your metaphor of hunting and competing in the wild is totally irrelevant here and is woefully inadequate to explain the civilized socialization of humans and our behaviors, thoughts or motives. Trying to reduce our behavior to "what primates do in the wild" or whatever is worse than useless.
Mo_ wrote:aletheia wrote:None of that makes even the slightest bit of sense.
Your metaphor of hunting and competing in the wild is totally irrelevant here and is woefully inadequate to explain the civilized socialization of humans and our behaviors, thoughts or motives. Trying to reduce our behavior to "what primates do in the wild" or whatever is worse than useless.
If I ever catch myself saying something like, "I didn't understand what you said, ...oh, but it's also worse than useless" ---I would worry that I wasn't even taking myself seriously.
And yes, why would anyone ever try to bring to bear our animal past to color our understanding of human behaviour in what ways it can! They're sooo essentially different! We're not an evolved pack animal with a past to study at all... No way, sir... How offensive indeed. I believe we came by special order carried by Storks.
_________ wrote:Mo_ wrote:aletheia wrote:None of that makes even the slightest bit of sense.
Your metaphor of hunting and competing in the wild is totally irrelevant here and is woefully inadequate to explain the civilized socialization of humans and our behaviors, thoughts or motives. Trying to reduce our behavior to "what primates do in the wild" or whatever is worse than useless.
If I ever catch myself saying something like, "I didn't understand what you said, ...oh, but it's also worse than useless" ---I would worry that I wasn't even taking myself seriously.
And yes, why would anyone ever try to bring to bear our animal past to color our understanding of human behaviour in what ways it can! They're sooo essentially different! We're not an evolved pack animal with a past to study at all... No way, sir... How offensive indeed. I believe we came by special order carried by Storks.
I actually agree with you here, a point at which Aletheia and myself find ourselves at odds often enough--though I hope sans animosity. To attempt to understand such an intricate social body as we inhabit with no regard to how it came about is...well, myopic at best. The stark contrast of baring the fangs to the smile of human society warrants looking into and certainly implies a (now) more or less subtle malice. Anyone read about (or been in the company of) debutantes, parvenus, the bourgeoisie to high society in general (you know, the pretentious boners living in named manors) is more than familiar with the perfunctory nature of court civilities. Perhaps somewhere along the lines we began to believe the ruse. Observing the signification of the smile in culture at large metastasize over the years would be an interesting study.
AND EVERYTHING I SAID was was to bolster the need for a further explanation on your part. After your comments, I'm afraid I have no interest in hearing it. And besides, you may have already agreed with me that "playful malice" is borderline an oxymoron.Mo wrote:"Playful" malice? What exactly is the distinction between malice "playful" or not? I think there may be none.
LOL. How would you know something made no sense unless you couldn't understand it? If you understood it, then guess what? --It makes fucking sense.aletheia wrote:And how might you know something "made no sense", or was "irrelevant", unless you understood it?
I have? I should?aletheia wrote:You've turned idiocy into quite an art. You ought be proud.
aletheia wrote:
"Controlled malice" here means any time you act from a motivation that is less than totally compassionate toward another, less than totally oriented toward another's needs or benefit. As I wrote, this often takes an initial form of ambivalence -- malice, or a lack of compassion/caring will express as a disinterestedness, lack of concern, or neutrality toward another and his or her needs. This is "malicious" because it is less than totally compassionate, because it does not act in such a way to either work toward or even attempt to understand what is best, beneficial, helpful or good for others. This maliciousness then can be either more or less intended, which is to say naive or self-responsible. "Controlled" malice would be aiming more toward the latter end of that scale, toward a more intentional and rationally-directed maliciousness (e.g. ambivalence, neutrality or lack of concern for another).
Malice is acting in such a way that one's intentions or actions are unbounded by the potential for harm these may cause another. Innocence then is "malicious" because it acts chaotically upon other people (and upon oneself). Innocence is not a "good will" nor good intention nor "excuse from self-responsibility" but rather is the lack of a guiding compassion and concern for another, this lack thus representing a failure of an otherwise compassion and concern to play a pre-scriptive and legislative role over one's actions and intentions/motives. This is what Nietzsche called the "playful innocence of the Child" (in Thus Spoke Zarathustra), its self-interestedness and the exclusion of any principle of compassion-care for others which would inform/infringe upon its motives and actions.
To be compassionate toward another is more than feeling a sympathetic response, it is taking direct, intentional action for the benefit of another. This action can express as actual behaviors or it can express on the level of thought or intention/motive. The absence of this action and/or of the capacity for it (which is to say, of the ability to be self-responsible and rationally conscious enough to envision one's actions and their potential outcomes in advance) is what I choose to call here "malicious".
I) I wonder why you feel the 'negative' emotions substantiate your existence as an individual more than the 'positive' ones. Perhaps I'm way off base here, but it seems to me that anger is something that defines you contra others, in a bellicose 'I am not that' sense. Let's take chess for example: I know my anger at losing is not directed at my inadequacy but the opponent's superiority. Is this really me at my most replete state of dasein? On the contrary, when I play a piece of music on the piano well, take an inspiring photo, express an opinion that is lauded, my focus (though sometimes aided or even induced by the praise of others) is on my accomplishment ("I am this")--my successful expression of self--and this, I feel, is my zenith of self-awareness.
II) Malice is defined as the desire to inflict injury; it's unequivocally intentional. Innocence thus can't be malicious as the intent is not to harm another but to benefit oneself. Though you seem to have begun to notice this yourself, it still seems a bit confused. You appear to describe more of a sociopath (or a graduation thereof) than an innocent: the self-interest supersedes the consequences bestowed external to the individual, this stemming from a "lack of guiding compassion and concern for another," or in other words a lack of empathy--ergo sociopath. Perhaps you could transpose your concepts onto a graduation of sociopathy, the consciousness of one's locus in that graduation and the conscious behavior as a result of this--or if this is analogous to what you're developing, I could just translate in my head, but I often find our signifiers conflict and as a result have difficulty interpreting the gestalt of your ideas.
aletheia wrote:You've turned idiocy into quite an art. You ought be proud.

Only_Humean wrote:aletheia wrote:You've turned idiocy into quite an art. You ought be proud.
This thread had best take a turn for the civil, or warnings will be issued.
aletheia wrote:The idea of malice, as you say, is taken to mean intentionality. But Nietzsche's meaning, which I mentioned, as per the "Child" is the "playful maliciousness" which is not an intention to harm but rather a lack of intention to "care", to be concerned with another. This lack of compassionate/caring intention toward the other can be more or less "direct" or "indirect: it can be either assumed/unconscious, as in a person who truly has no capacity to understand how their actions affect the other, or it can be innocent/conscious as in a person who "wills" or intends -- who knows but does not "care" -- that their intentionality does not encompass their possible (detrimental) impact upon another. Nietzsche's Child (re: the progression from Camel to Lion to Child) is an example of this latter: it is a being for whom the "needs" or concerns of others has become unimportant, unable to inform its intentions/motives. But this is essentially an unimportance of lack, not of substance: it is a substantiated lack which is necessitated by the fact that this being has become able to "sustain itself" or "will itself", be itself as it is, only in so far as it is able to operate with some degree of disregard for the concerns and needs of the other. This is not an intention to harm, but it is also very deliberately not an intention to concern oneself either. Indeed even this Child can be able to experience sadness, regret or sympathy at the misfortunes of others, even those which the Child itself caused or contributed toward. In other words, this Child is not "heartless", far from it. This is the internal complex structurality of this psychological type which Nietzsche was outlining with this metaphor, and which I have brought up in this topic for further consideration.
WHAT?!Nietzsche's Child (re: the progression from Camel to Lion to Child) is an example of this latter: it is a being for whom the "needs" or concerns of others has become unimportant,
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