xyfsomethingsomething. If I may present exhibit A: the sequence of exchanges that occurred between LaughingMan and Phoneutria on page one.
You’ll see that Phoneutria’s first post in this thread was innocuous. Then you must consider how it could be possible for Phoneutria to feel slightly offended by LM’s response to it. Keep in mind the delicate content of the thread; one of those threads where all the male posters bash women and all the female posters rush in to defend themselves against the allegations about women in general.
Whether or not Phoneutria in particular is ‘attracted to wealthy men’ or whatever the premise is of this thread is, is beside the point at the moment. The thread had already turned sour before your exchange with Phoneutria, and to reinforce the premise that she, in particular, ‘needs a man’ or is incapable of sustaining her own well-being by herself, only provokes more hostile interaction between her and the male posters.
Is she attracted to wealthy men or happy to be married to a man who isn’t a dead beat? Perhaps, but that isn’t the argument here. The argument you are making at this point is that she needs a man. I don’t think she needs a man at all. She has a man, but doesn’t need the man, you know what I’m sayin’?
Remember: she said nothing insulting or disrespectful to anyone when she entered this thread. Somebody poked her, and they were venomously disarmed. Pretty simple, really.