There’s some confusing language in this thread, I want make sure it’s said: We’re animals, literally.
Morality is a product of man, and man is natural, thus morality is natural.
Morality is a measure of good / bad in relation to objectives / values / priorities.
Whether a set of objectives / values / priorities truly reflects the interests of the individual and/or of the community is another matter.
As we all act for our own self interest, this rationally ought be the measure. Oneself.
We are more powerful than other animals (that we’re aware of), thus our potential scope of actions is wider than other animals. This means we can do worse shit, and better shit.
We’re still children, and give power to ignorant children, they’re bound to fuck up. Thus, to look back on our acts, there’s gonna be lots of bad shit. However, we learn from our mistakes, and can do better in the present / future.
As our species matures, the balance between doing bad to doing good (in relation to our interests) will shift from the prior to the latter.
By the fact that our actions upset us, means they’re undermining something we value. This is real. Your feelings are real.
Thus, we can learn from these feelings, and start to act differently. We need not hurt each other and ourselves.
We protect ourselves, but it’s for a better day. A day where we don’t need to guard our hearts. To pace oneself, is not to say the goal is fading. We are frail beings, and we’ll break under too much pressure.