Artimas wrote:Is heartbreak the hardest pain to deal with,
No, try getting hit by a hollow point.
Personally, I have never experienced this true love that people speak of, nor do i believe that it comes down to not meeting the "right" person, nor do i believe that it's apart of life or some kind of destiny of human communication. I have also noticed when somebody like myself mentions such things, people will automatically get defensive and try to justify feeling such feelings, with saying similar things like "you're missing out" or laughably my favorite "who's going to take care of you when you're old"
In my opinion, such people have a feminine nature and are more inclined to emotionalism, which expresses it self as belonging, acceptance, validation, approval, home,etc They are also very easily taken and influenced and usually try to take such chemical realities and birth them into a romantic philosophy of being human. In my opinion these people are delusional. They also try to create this as a social defacto standard where if anybody isn't regurgitating the same narrative then there must be something defective about the person.
It's even worse when they take such feelings of love and apply it across the spectrum of all living creatures, projecting it into the objective beyond its subjective relative purpose. So here love is being used as an emotional tool to deny reality of a natural tribalism that exists within human nature.
I would also say from a masculine stand point, that such feelings are experienced in a more observed sense within oneself as oppose to being felt or lived out the way it is expressed in the feminine sense. The acceptance of reality, life and death is crucial to comprehension of this.
I would also say that this modern version of love is exploited by people in order to gain a social life and the significance of self-expression, especially in a pop culture context, and for people to find meaning through purpose, who are usually devoid of identity which results from being cut off from, or unaware of their past and the nature of life in relation to survival where love is expressed as toxic desperation.