Why condemn offence, when it is a subjective phenomenon?

[Moreno]

Rudeness doesn't exist, all know this.

Hm, that's really odd, since you said

indoz wrote:My basic argument is that society says to suck up to rudeness.

So which of your posts is wrong? One has to be.

[indoz]

As said, most sources state to suck up rudeness, since nobody has to be accommodating of others.

I don't see why a healthy person should if others are rude to them, it demonstrates narcissism if others expect adulation.

[Moreno]

As said, most sources state to suck up rudeness, since nobody has to be accommodating of others.

Not most of the sources I find. I suppose most would suggest you calmly tell people they are being rude, but I have never seen a single source say 'suck up to rudeness'. Maybe you need to check out new sources.

I don't see why a healthy person should if others are rude to them, it demonstrates narcissism if others expect adulation.

I agree. There is no good reason for a healthy person to suck up to someone who is rude to them, as I have been saying all the way through. It seems like we finally agree, not through my doing.

[indoz]

You mentioned assaulting rude people, well this contradicts how to healthily deal with rude individuals.

I think most think it's best to filter out and ignore them.

[Moreno]

You mentioned assaulting rude people, well this contradicts how to healthily deal with rude individuals.

I think most think it's best to filter out and ignore them.

I doubt I mentioned assaulting rude people. At least not as a good thing to do. Apart from being illegal, it's an overreaction. Why didn't you just ignore your brother?

[Moreno]

why did you lie about what I said?