Couldn’t have said it better. IF there was anyone to blame itd be more on the woman, however i think in all reality there is no blame. Humans are not monogamous creatures, so the whole idea of monogamy in a marriage is a joke.
So what is a marriage besides a written contract that binds two people in the government’s eyes? Sex outside of marriage is the norm, as is sex inside of marriage, sex with or without contracts will continue. What’s the big deal?
Are you making a claim that humans cannot be monogomous, that would make it quite odd that monogamy is basically the standard for romantic involvement the world over.
Socially yes we claim to be “monogamous”, in reality we are hardwired to have sex with more than one partner and cheat in order to fulfill this hardwired need.
That makes little sense especially when stacked against what I had said earlier.
I’ve researched into that stuff as well and what I read is that in comparison with other animals (both those that are monogomous and those that aren’t) humans are neither fully monogomous nor are they incapable of being monogomous.
Well ive taken a psych lab in animal behavior and have learned quite a bit about other animals and ourselves in regard to mating habits. I wouldn’t say humans are incapable of monogamy, but instead that it is against human nature to be one.
I know it seems as if its sad, ive been told that what i think is sad by others too, but its just what is without any bullshit if you’re honest, its easier to accept things as they are, I’ve found.
How? It’s hard to describe more like a feeling, intimacy but with a genuine affection and care as well. Feeling good being with the one you love simply because they are there. Like an embrace.
The girl is rarely right about much, but besides that commentary, what do you mean by “right”? I just think we’re different in the way of thinking about it in general of course. In general guys wanna fuck, and girls want a guy who will stick around after and so they associate these girl feelings with girl wants like all that you mentioned prior. Most guys just wanna fuck and get out whether they admit to it or not