Moderator: Carleas
What's a pezer?lizbethrose wrote:Pezer, what were your reasons for posting this? I liked it, by the way, because I agreed with a lot of what Stephan Fry said.
But do you think what he said showed that he's confused about philosophy, or that you're confused by what he said?
phyllo wrote:When reading a post, it's easier to derive Stoic Guardian from SG than it is to get FilmSnob from Pezer.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, in Self-Reliance, wrote:The other terror that scares us from self-trust is our consistency; a reverence for our past act or word, because the eyes of others have no other data for computing our orbit than our past acts, and we are loath to disappoint them.
But why should you keep your head over your shoulder? Why drag about this corpse of your memory, lest you contradict somewhat you have stated in this or that public place? Suppose you should contradict yourself; what then? It seems to be a rule of wisdom never to rely on your memory alone, scarcely even in acts of pure memory, but to bring the past for judgment into the thousand-eyed present, and live ever in a new day. In your metaphysics you have denied personality to the Deity: yet when the devout motions of the soul come, yield to them heart and life, though they should clothe God with shape and color. Leave your theory, as Joseph his coat in the hand of the harlot, and flee.
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words, and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day.--'Ah, so you shall be sure to be misunderstood.'--Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.
A username is a shallow cover; how it's perceived and what it means depend on how it's worn. The deepness of meaning that we might attribute to particular usernames comes not from the name itself but from the persona we associate with it. Sometimes a person can feel stuck with a particular persona and the set of expectations that seem to accompany it and so seek to change things like a name in order to change the persona. (Other ways of circumventing the issue include altering the people one hangs around or the routine places one inhabits.) If it's really the persona itself that's become burdensome, then changing the name associated with the persona doesn't directly confront the issue.
Emerson talks about the burden of dragging "about this corpse of your memory" in which one has outlined a sketch of himself and which the pressure of expectation reinforces, even to the point of compulsion. Consistency isn't always a great thing, although we are often compelled to behave with utter consistency.
phyllo wrote:You are not your name.
Lfannle Ejsus wrote:Any criticism of name-changing applies to everyone in this thread...
aes dhammo sanantano Pali: 'this is the eternal law'A username is a shallow cover; how it's perceived and what it means depend on how it's worn. The deepness of meaning that we might attribute to particular usernames comes not from the name itself but from the persona we associate with it. Sometimes a person can feel stuck with a particular persona and the set of expectations that seem to accompany it and so seek to change things like a name in order to change the persona. (Other ways of circumventing the issue include altering the people one hangs around or the routine places one inhabits.) If it's really the persona itself that's become burdensome, then changing the name associated with the persona doesn't directly confront the issue.
Emerson talks about the burden of dragging "about this corpse of your memory" in which one has outlined a sketch of himself and which the pressure of expectation reinforces, even to the point of compulsion. Consistency isn't always a great thing, although we are often compelled to behave with utter consistency.
statiktech wrote:This is an excellent point, and precisely where I get hung up on the issue. We are all dynamic to some degree, even with respect to our 'characters', or projected personas. As we learn and come to certain understandings, we inevitably change; continually adapting. But here, or should I say in places like this, everyone is asserting - establishing a presence before they get stomped out and overlooked. To see someone change, let alone concede to change, is a healthy thing in my mind. I think it's good for the other people here as well. It amounts to a much needed infusion of modesty from time to time, and perhaps even a hint of personal growth. It's alright to err and change, accept it, show it. The shedding of an alias seems obviously symbolic to me, which suggests the issue is a psychological one. Let your name represent the progression of a thinker, rather than what others expect of you. Some of the masks we wear are shallow, I agree, but not always. Some evoke honesty in us. But, it is important to recognize that it isn't the "shallow cover" being honest, or otherwise different, but the person behind it. The mask is superfluous, albeit symbolic [and representative in that sense].
Of course, I also have an admitted respect for people who dare to speculate, change their minds, or admit their errors - and endure it. It's refreshing.
Flannel Jesus wrote:I don't think there's a single person on here with his original name.
Return to Help And Suggestions
Users browsing this forum: No registered users