The most powerful force or barrier in the entire universe is the only thing that prevents total annihilation of all forms and structures. Engineers and physicists call it “Impedance Mismatch”. Psychologists call it “Emotional Dissonance”. And sociologists call it “Ideological Differences”.
Without particlization, there could be no form or structure to the physical, the mental, or the social.
A positive particle (whether physical, psychological, or social) is kept positive by being constantly fed tiny portions of positive affectance as it also loses some through time. The negative portions floating in the ambient surroundings, pass through very quickly whereas the positive portions linger for much longer times. And a negative particle does the reverse with equal zeal. That is what keeps charged particles stable and the universe of forms, structures, and life intact.
What prevents a positive and negative particles (physical, psychological, or social) from annihilating?
If both particles are the same size, they can easily annihilate each other as the affect of each is exactly met with the affect of its opposite. They migrate toward each other, each having what the other is lacking, and then proceed to counter the affect of the other with equal affect of their own. The thief steal as much money as the bank bring in, destroying the ability to continue for both of them.
One particle must be more massive, inertial, or stable than the other in order to prevent such annihilation. The bank must have more money than the thief can steal, else it goes out of business and the thief starves for lack of resource. The wife with the exact same amount of power and inertia as the husband is soon a divorcee. To remain married, they must have a difference in strength (concerning the variety of things that keep them alive) or be very isolated from any disturbance with no other option.
It is not sufficient for a man and women to be merely different and complimentary. They must also be of unequal affect or strength. Either must be stronger (having more mass/inertia/stability/affect) than the other.
When this is the case, the two will cling to each other in symbiotic appeal but never be cancelled or annihilated by the other. They need each other’s difference and do not wish either to become like the other and no matter how much they interfere with each other’s intent or efforts (“charge”), the smaller can never cancel out all of the larger’s affect and the larger, as long as it has the upper hand, will insist that the smaller remain a complimentary particle, not merely more of the same. The businessman requires and insists upon there being a consumer of his product or service, else both perish.
This constitutes “impedance mismatching” and is literally the strongest barrier/“force” in the universe. It keeps the positive, positive and the negative, negative. They remain a stable couple, a “family” or “atom of society”.
What makes the smaller one what it is, its soul or essence, is what the larger one needs and desires to have around and vsvrsa. Both have interfering affect upon the other; “positive to negative”, “masculine to feminine”, “conservative to liberal”. But neither wants to entirely change the other into another of itself, and more importantly, they cannot lose their essence because of both physical construct as well as social/ambient conditioning and urging - the portions of charged affectance coming and going. As long as the liberal is fed liberal inspirations, the conservative is fed conservative inspirations, and one is larger than the other, the system of both together can continue. If they ever become equal in their affect upon society, they both annihilate.
Each is fed small portions its “charge” such as to remain as it was born. The male is fed with masculine affectance (urgings to be masculine). And the female is fed with feminine affectance (the urging to remain feminine). One is supplied with masculine resources while the other is supplied with feminine resources. Thus both are vested in what they are. Neither loses its essence and cannot convert to the other nor cancel the other … as long as one is larger, more stable with greater affect, than the other.
Similarly two opposing ideologies or religions have the same situation. As long as one is larger than the other in its affect, they will circle each other, each needing or wanting for what the other has, and neither capable of completely annihilating the affects of the other … as long as one has greater affect than the other.
This universal dynamic constitutes an impregnable barrier, an impedance mismatch, allowing the universe to contain forms, structure, and life. As long as particles cannot fall into each other in annihilation, space can fill with larger and larger structures. By creating devices to eliminate this dynamic, all structure annihilates.
Within each person, the same dynamic is involved. There are urges to do constructive things and destructive things. As long as one is capable of greater affect than the other, the person’s emotional stability can remain intact. They can have a stable conserving attitude or a stable destroying attitude. They can be more stable in society or be immutably sociopathic. They remain emotional consistent and stable … as long as the affect of one direction of urging is greater than its opposite.
Having no difference means having no PHT (Perception of Hope and/or Threat); no interest, incentive, or motivation. Having no motivation means having no life.
And equal yet opposite means annihilation.