In my experience, hate is most compatible with disdain. But hate is more addictive, like cocaine, the user depends on it, would not give it up for anything, alows it to drive him. By choice! Though if choice where tested, hate and cocaine would both win. But that’s the trick of them, they give a feeling of power that commands choice, happily given, forcefully taken.
They may be the happiest human beings around. Not in the usual sense of happy, but the addict sense of happy. A giddy sort of freedom.
Disdain is different. It is neither a choice nor offers it. It is less understood, because everybody hates, but a select few feel disdain. This is my experience, anyway.
Disdain allows the hateful to act, because it is disdainful of its victims. Of the hater too, but it is like hating is disdain for the lower classes.
The main difference is that hate is born of love, also a lower class affection in my experience. Of expecting others to return feelings and acts of goodwill. Meanwhile disdain is born out of pride, out of expecting others to show bravery in all and any sphere. The hate master will inicially seem brave, thus offputting disdain. But it is soon revealed that hate promotes more daring than bravery, obviously, as long as the action is vengeful, never for daring’s sake, so it is also a more limited daring.
But in a deeper way, a less conscious one, hate allows disdain. Because disdain enjoys the weak being put in their place, though itself would never sully itself so.
Better love and bravery if they can be found. Not together, as bravery is loftier, but in a similar way as the above they are retrofeeding.