The spoon and soup are constituted of matter/energy that have always existed, and certain configurations are recognisable as “spoon” and “soup” due to the fundamental forces holding them together in various stable ways.
Your problem is that you’re thinking in terms of labels (e.g. “spoon” and “soup”) and not the real constituent parts that merely need to reconfigure to cause the different things to exist that you can label. The labels aren’t the reality, the testable constituents are.
If two hydrogen atoms and an oxygen atom have always existed, they can still move relative to one another, however relatively frozen they are in their stable states, and the fundamental forces are all you need to add for the different arrangements to amount to all the multitude of sensory outcomes that we enjoy at the unassisted human level of perception and beyond.
You’re advocating the need for frozen labels for your conception to hold, and yet nothing in reality ever exactly matches these ideal forms. The forms aren’t even possible - there is no perfect spoon or soup, there’s just different arrangements of the world that are sometimes loosely but closely enough identifiable as spoon, soup etc.
There’s really no need to escape the real world in hope and wonder of a “more real” world that has all the answers. Don’t be such a Christian. Everything you need is right here if you just look a little more closely and rigorously, and like Nietzsche diagnosed, if you can’t cope without your inversion of cause and consequence, you are sick. At least Plato had the excuse of not yet knowing about modern science.