a brief compendium of my thoughts and feelings

On Morality and Faith

I have long since accepted that the highest justice in this world must be carried out by ourselves. Inscribed in each of us is the burden of being fair to each other. There is no such inscription in the universe. It’s wonder and riches are no more intentional than its disease and destruction. Some people live their entire lives in miserableness and depravity much worse than I have ever experienced by no intentional design of the universe. I have long since accepted this without question. My own personal pain and struggle forced the question “why” to consciousness, but every answer I submitted felt incomplete and every wisdom I encountered too cheap. I could not be satisfied and soon stopped looking for the satisfaction. I was resigned to the thought that the universe was a space of vast indifference. I like the idea. It’s very poetic to me. It does not matter to me anymore whether the world was designed to be this way or not.

If the need for a satisfying answer/morality were all there was to it, God would have become irrelevant for me a long time ago. But I haven’t been able to shrug it off. The second turn of the screw is in the realization that why people believe in God or why they don’t implicates them socially and psychologically. God may be irrelevant, but the shadow He casts on earth is not.

I developed a habit when I was younger of making up stories to get out of trouble - to displace fault. Lying. It’s not uncommon. I was an intelligent child and I could think of simple (reasonable) lies (simple is key: the more elaborate - imaginative - the story, the less credulous were my parents. best to tie the story in partly with what actually happened) to evade responsibility for whatever unacceptable thing I had done. The hardest thing about lying was dealing effectively with their accumulation. It can be very tiresome. Small, isolated fabrications are easy; but you’d be surprised how few of them are isolated in the long view. So lying became too mentally and morally draining. I also learned that my dishonesty with others had grown my ability to rationalize and thus obscure my own intentions and motives. What I gained from the experience was a liar’s insight. Although I am mostly honest with others now, I have a pretty good feel for genuine people and I’m a very decent judge of character. I now see that there are two relevant kinds of trust we have in other people. 1. Trust in behavior patterns → “inference based on past experience” and 2. wishful anticipatory trust → “an extension of credit” or “faith”. The former is abundant in me. Since I am reasonably intelligent and old enough to have some experience dealing with people, I pick up on behavior patterns. I trust a person in that I have had enough experience to see his regularities and patterns and can reasonably understand and predict his actions and motives. This trust exists by virtue of reason and experience. The second kind of trust refers to the amenable credulity we lend to people - how we extend faith or credit to others based on our own wishful anticipation or ignorance. Society and civilization require people to be trustful of each other so that there can be a high degree of cooperation, agreement, and capitulation. This trust exists by virtue of desire and ignorance. This is the trust that allows most people to believe in God.

For most people, it comes down to how they were raised and what runs in their social circles. If you come from a very religious family and if your sig. other and/or friends are churchgoers, chances are you’ll “fit in.” No one is born believing in god; this has to be taught. Most people simply stick to their faith through habituation. After the constant exposure and teachings of childhood, it becomes mundane. Accepted. If we’re talking about organized religion, I have a strong distaste for it. Even when apologists aren’t the crazy, in your face, “you’ll go to hell” type, they usually annoy me because they put more stock in an out-of-date book written by men that are dead than they do in their living fellow human being. I do not believe in god because I believe in a world that renders god superfluous. I prayed to god when I was like 6 or something. It was more like asking a genie for a wish. Well, the wish didn’t come true and it pissed me off because I knew the idea was ridiculous to begin with. By that point I already knew about the whole Santa Claus charade. Now I didn’t gain evidence one way or the other from the failed prayer experiment, but since I never had any to confirm the existence of god in the first place, it would only have been out of mimicry had I continued to believe in god. So god was filed into the “Santa Claus category.” I would only have sustained the belief to fit in with the other Christian friends/family I had at the time. I suppose I could have made myself believe in a god, or made myself available for religious conditioning if I had had a mind to do so. But my experience of organized religion pushed me away. I never got the idea of worship anyway. What kind of an ultimate transcendent being would command us to worship it in mass? If I’m going to worship something, it will have to be earned. And this whole judgment and reward thing. Sorry, but I could care less for living up to the expectations of some imaginary paternal deity. There are enough expectations to deal with already. Plus, I try to lead a genuine life and I am mindful of my flaws. I can’t relate to a transcendent being I’ve never experienced. I take my example from the most noble people in history and the people who inspire me in my life. If god has a problem with that, I’ll let god communicate that to me.

On the Origin of the Universe

We don’t need physics professors to make a few basic distinctions between god and singularities as two competing theories for the origin of the universe.

First we need to bring into focus a general conception of god. “God” almost always refers to a being that transcends the physical world, can we agree? So you have to think about what belief in god entails. It entails belief in a “beyond the physical world.” So, in this respect, singularities and supernatural beings differ hugely already. Singularities at least can be held to rely on and cohere with information and claims that are already well-grounded in physics. If a particular theory about singularities does not cohere with fundamental physical claims, then we can criticize and improve it with recourse to physics. Claims of supernatural or transcendent beings do not have to cohere with physical claims, and are thus impossible to criticize or improve with recourse to physics.

Rest assured that when a physical theory of the origin of the universe gains traction it must hold its own against the inevitable onslaught of scientific criticism. You say physicists make singularities their starting point and don’t have to account for anything else (“They then don’t have to go back any further”). That’s not true - there will be pressure to go back farther and farther, to explain what caused the singularity, or else pressure to explain why they do not need to go back, why the singularity was not caused. They will have to account for all these things. God on the other hand is often defined in terms that evade scientific criticism. There’s not much we can criticize about theories of god (which isn’t a good thing in this case). Theories of god are vague and their evidence is usually non-evidence, like miracles and the unexplained. The fact that we can’t explain a thing isn’t evidence for god (although a lot of people think so). When theories of god can explain things that, for instance, physics or psychology cannot, then I might change my mind. But god has always thrived on the unexplained. Some physicists are religious - that’s true. In my view, god is a personal, spiritual, life-style choice for many people instead of a rational belief.

Physics is not common sense. It’s neither easy nor self-evident. Beyond some very simple basics, logic is also not common sense. It takes, in fact, a lot of study and practice to become proficient. Whether wrong or right, the big bang theory and singularity theory belong to the discipline of science, specifically physics, and they must be demonstrated to cohere with other physical claims, whereas god is exempt from such scrutiny.

God as the Ultimate Reality of Everything

When god-concepts become so diverse, i.e. when there are so many radically different and contradictory concepts of god, the word ‘god’ begins to lose any substantial meaning. Pretty soon, if people go the way turtle is going, when someone says “I’m an atheist” they’ll have to specify “Well…I’m an atheist with regard to the traditional god of the Judeo-Christian, Abrahamic, Hindu, etc. type. BUT if you’re talking about a new age god, like ‘the ultimate reality of everything’ then I’m a believer.” Someone can be an atheist and believe in the ultimate reality of everything. Let’s face it - traditional god(s) and this new age god - are nothing alike. It no longer makes sense to use the same word.

The point is, turtle, your concept of god differs so much from traditional conceptions of god that it has long exceeded all charitable interpretations of the dictionary definition. In brief, you really shouldn’t call it (the ultimate reality of everything) god. We need a fresh word.

Credit to Ascolo Parodites (Vanitas) and turtle for the discussions that led me to articulate my thoughts.

I have always been fond of the word " Architect"
I can even appeaciate the word ‘Creator’.

However, in certain situations you can use the words, "The Great Unknown"

None the less, Your thoughts were written well, and I found it to be a lot less boring than the “Boredom” thread. :wink:

I like The Great Unknown. It also has the advantage of reminding me of one of my favorite songs: The Great Below

And thanks. I’m through with the standard religious debate about whether God exists or not. I’m through with petty division. I don’t even think in terms of religion anymore, religion has become too infected a word for my vocabulary. I prefer to think about spirituality now. And I prefer the impulse to unify than that to division.

is it too long?

too obvious?

too boring?

do you agree?

why no replies?

Honestly…it’s not too long.
It’s just too long for, right now.
I’ve been swamped lately…I keep wanting to read this though.

I read everything. The first part is very familiar to me. The whole process of rejecting God and also the realization that the absence of any real responsibility with regards to morality has no bearing on the effect it has on you. You may even start to lie to yourself. This would be very detrimental to your psychological health.

We don’t need God to judge our actions. We do that ourselves. We do everything ourselves.

Yes, throw all concepts we have of God out the window. There is no God. We can however, explain God.

The small white lies were part of a phase I went through way before I had most of these realizations, not the other way around.

Yes, throw all concepts we have of God out the window. There is no God. We can however, explain God.

I’m not sure I’m throwing concepts of God out the window…just the ones that have nothing to do with God and therefore should not be called “God” (e.g. the ultimate reality of everything). Also, I wouldn’t say “There is no God.” Whether there is or isn’t doesn’t particularly bother me. I just don’t think it is necessary to know or quibble about it. What is necessary to know and quibble about are the meanings behind God, the deeper spiritual impulses about life, existence and meaning itself.

OK…I read through it during a break at work.
So…I don’t really have a response to the original post because I can’t really see anything in it that is either affirmed nor contested on much of any subject.

It more seems to be a statement which says:

  1. We are the moral responsibility.
  2. We discover how matter works.
  3. We define gods and have over-defined them into an oblivion equal to not existing at this point.

On all fronts I have only to offer a, “Yes.”

I suppose what I don’t know is what the object is that these descriptions apply to.
For instance, Mr. Kebop thought the object was, “God”, and that all of these descriptions showed how to strip away the responsibility of, “God”, as a result.

You’ve made it clear that wasn’t the point.
But I’m not sure what was the object.

However, then you wrote this:

For me, you could have just started there and skipped the rest (maybe not for others).
This is interesting and tangible as an object, while the original post left me wondering what was the subject matter.

So, your point seems to be that you are interested in the systemic inheritances of being human and how that relates to the consequence of our ontological behaviors as a byproduct of our cardinal experience of existing.
Is that about right?

Well the OP is collection of thoughts on related subjects. I’m not sure if it has an overall thesis, just maybe a few good points here and there. That’s why I wanted to talk about it. I want to crystallize my thoughts.

:laughing: Let me think about that. I’m sure what I said has something to do with that.

Here is my next thought:

It seems to me that when most people casually say they believe in God what they really mean is that they belong to such-and-such religion. And now we’re getting somewhere. I don’t care what religion you belong to, I care about your spirituality. I care about your personal orientation toward life, existence and meaning itself. Your religion doesn’t tell me that, nor should it. If your religion does tell me that, then why are you alive? If you discount your own personal experience and take on the words of others displacing your own, you may as well be committing suicide. Spiritual suicide.

The easiest way to get to someone’s breathing-religion (what you are interested in; to give it a name) is to move around their discourse-religion.

What I mean by that is if you want to move out of the way of their “religion”, such as Buddhism or what-not, and instead get to their spiritual experience that is consequent from living as them, then one of the last things useful is to bring up any topic of their religion.

Here’s how that works, to be more clear.
When you discuss things with people, they may bring up their religion, or beliefs that are dogmatically party to their religion.
You sidestep that by directing the focus of the conversation on the other parts of the comments.

Meaning, if someone talks about praying to their god, take a leap over the fence and work on when they pray.
What provokes the prayer? What is the connection that urges them to pray?
If the response involves more dogmatic intermixed responses, you continue to isolate the human aspects of it that every person can relate to, and simply fail to comment on any of the dogmatic sections of their discussion.

In so doing, they are affirmed and so are you.
Your conversation never asked them to forfeit their way of communicating or expressing, and you get what you wanted anyway: a discussion on their breathing-religion.

I think that’s a very valuable suggestion. I already do this a bit.

But not only do I want to side-step their religion, I want them to learn to side-step their religion, too, or to regard it less importantly and their personal spirituality more importantly.

You and I both…you and I both.

I think maybe the title of the thread is uninteresting. Otherwise, I’m not sure why more people haven’t bothered with it. I would think the conclusions we’re coming to would stir up different viewpoints.

Should I change the title to something like “Spirituality, Not Religion” ? Or “the religion of life” ? …to use your words.

Where were you on my old posts? You should look my religion posts up…serious. I’d be interested in your thoughts since they are heavily on that very subject.

Thread title? Nah.
Start a new thread that hits a thought from that line of thinking straight on.

It’s funny, I tend not to bother with the “Religion” forum much because I don’t like to talk about religions or scriptures or what God meant or what God’s doing or any of that. Circuitous bullshit, as far as I’m concerned – most of it. But the kinds of conversations I’ve had with you or that you’ve started have made me want to use the Religion forum again.

Any thread(s) in particular you would like to discuss? Links? I’ll check them out.

I’ll link some when I’m on my computer again ( on my phone atm), but off the top of my head.
The religion of the hiccup
is religion molding
modular spirituality (sorry…I never wrote anything on it here; I was mistaken)
globalism and religion
religion’s death or rebirth?

In conceptual order (and you did respond to some of these, but I didn’t go through weeding them out):
[tab]Shaking the Hand of Reality
Religion is Molding; Is it Time to Move?
Explaining Why Religion Exists
Religion’s Death or Rebirth?
What Religion Is For (warning: long; 2308 words) (old, back when I was still a theist, but it shows a transition when mixed with the above)
The Religion of the Hiccup
To Convey

Silence: the automatic gain control of being human
Is Humanity Temporal or Transferable?
Intransitiveness
The Validity of the Sigil
Spiritual Practice: contextual measure & benefits
Music as linguistic articulation of Religious communication

My spiritual perspective on life.
religion of spirit

Philosophical Spiritual Ontology (a product of the above, and more like those, thoughts and emotions forced into expressed form)

Enlighten Up! (What is the nature of spirituality?)
Anesteshia for Life & Atman

Communal Meditation
An Ontological Meditation
Regard only Disregard and Disregard It as Well[/tab]

I can’t wait when you discover there is no such thing as spirituality or spirit.

The “deepest values and meanings by which people live.” doesn’t exist?

Spirituality from what i gather is just a superstitious name given for biomechanisms at work. Values and meanings of life are perfectly fine to have for sure. I just disagree with wiki’s definition of it there.