First of all, let me admit that this may be easily considered as an open ad-hom by Ty, other members and even mods. And, perhaps that would not be wrong judgement either. But, i have to say what i have to say even if it displeases some. And. i am ready to pay the price if mods see me as guilty though my only intention is to help him out by giving some suggestions.
I was thinking over and over again how i should deal with Ty. Not because i am bothered about his ideology, but about Ty himself in person and also about ILP.
I thought of engaging with him in conversation many times, and even posted one or two times in his threads too, though, for unknown reasons, he reactions were quite normal to me, in comparison to other members. But, i refrained myself by and large being engaged with him. Because, he looks to me a gone case by far, too mach damaged to be repaired.
Ty,
I do not know the reasons but you seem to be too much hurt and frustrated, far beyond the limit that a human can handle. You need an outlet for that and you chose philosophy for release. But, let me tell you that you are not meant for philosophy. No matter at which forum you ever go, sooner or later, you would be thrown out. That is going to haapen every time and the reason is very simple.
You are looking at philosophy with a complete biased mind. You mind is that much filled with your past, that it just refuses to allow anything else even to consider. Though, it is true that we all use to be biased to some extent, but at least we listen to disagreements and try to convince those. But, that does not happen in your case. You just want to force yourself bluntly on others, and also, without giving any reasoning. No philosophy forum would accept that in longer run.
But, putting negativity aside, i still see a silver lining in you and that is about your writing skill. Your writing is very impressive and you are full of ideas and emotins. Furthermore, you know very well how to express those. That is a really a rare quality. There is certainly an X factor in your writing. Use it for yourself.
Just forget about philosophy and start writing short stories and even poems. Believe me, that is your forte, not philosophy. Seeing some of your posts in creative writing, I can easily bet on your success in that field. Take a break from philosophy, sit down and just pour all that you have within you on paper. Show it to any publisher and he would tell you what your worth is. Do not waste your time on these boring discussions as all this are not meant at least for you.
I have some more suggestions for you. These are simple things but would help you to some extent. But please, do not ask me why because you are not in state of understanding.
In principle, you have to keep yourself away from hight and heat and near to water and earth.
Never live on high altitudes or even upper floors. Try to be as close to the earth as possible. And, if possible, do not sleep even on the bed, spread the mat on the floor and sleep over it.
Do not live in warm areas but prefer slight cold conditions. Take bath twice a day and that even with cold water too, if possible. Try to spend some time in swimming if there is any pool or sea shore around.
Do not eat too warm food but only when it comes down to room temperature and avoid sizzlers completely. And, avoid spicy food also. Try to have those eatables more that can be taken in cold form like ice cream, cold milk, juices, cheese, fruits, salad etc. Avoid red meat too and have fish instead.
And, very importantly, just keep away from women. You are far from being ready to have any relationship. If you try one, that would break sooner or later and would add to your frustration. You can go to professionals if feel for sex. That would not harm you.
All these little amendments would help you in life.
And also, i sincerely apologize to you for raising personal issues but that was essential to me as i am more concerned about your betterment than your opinion about me. Do not consider all this as your criticism but a sincere advice from a well wisher.
After this post, perhaps you would never engage with me. But still, my wishes are with you. May you have a great future. Good luck.
To the Mods -
Perhaps i have broken the rules and that is up to you to decide. I would accept the decision or punishment, whatever it may be. That is not the issue but i want to raise a different point.
Once again, as already discussed in many threads under the context of liberty vs restriction, to which extent a poster should be allowed to express his ideas in the name of free speech? And, even more importantly, in which manner?
I accept and agree with the concept of free speech, but, if there should be any limit or not?
Or, any personal relentless frustration and hatred towards any class or gender should also be allowed under philosophy?
And, that too without any given reasoning and not listening to counters?
Was Ty should be allowed to the extent that he went here at ILP?
Or, should he have not been stopped much earlier?
Is calling all women as bitches and whores should be allowed in the name of free speech or even philosophy?
And, let me also remind here that Ty is not the only one but there are some other posters also who have been made it a habit.
Should the words and phrases like fuck you, what a fuck, asshole, bitches, whores, prick, pussy etc be banned?
Or, they add a bit of flavor to philosophical forums?
Should there be any difference between Facebook and ILP?
Or not?
with love,
sanjay