In thinking about people, just in general,
and it has been noted before, by many, that
for the most part, especially within the middle class,
or working poor, that their goal is no very high…
in other words, they aspire to a very modest life…
shelter, a car that works, a white picket fence,
and a dog name Troubles…
The goal of the vast majority of people is very limited…
and in the suburbs, where I have lived all my life, no one
aspires to greatness or becoming something special,
the middle class aspires to nothing more than holding onto
or slightly increasing one’s wealth…
but the question becomes why, why does the vast majority
of this country only aim to keep what they have or gain a bit,
they seek out nothing more than, at best, average… nothing
higher or nothing lower… and one wonders why?
Why don’t people seek out becoming greatness or even
at least rising above your basic average which is the
normal of the middle class…
I think there are several reasons why the middle and working class
in America especially, are happy with average or even mediocrity.
there is no drive to become something greater, higher, or to take
the ‘‘big risk’’… the vast majority of people are risk adverse…
to dare to dream big, to become greater than just middle class,
takes imagination and with every risk come the possibility of
failure…the greater the risk, the greater possibility of failure…
and if one dares greatness, one is at risk of great failure…
and it is hard to recover from such a failure…the vast majority
of people will only take very modest risks… at best…
the question becomes, is this risk aversion internal, or
is it external? Are we taught to avoid taking chances or
do we internalize being safe?
Personally, I have changed careers twice after the age of
30…but I was left with no choice… it was changing careers
or having nothing… In roughly 6 months, I shall make the
next big change in my life, and I will be retiring…
but that too is a great risk… what if I run out of money…
my mom outlived her money, and she has nothing…
my siblings took over her bills but not everyone is that
lucky… and it is the great fear of the retirement crowd to
run out of money after retirement…I suspect that is why
a lot of people don’t retire once they are able to… fear…
and I suspect that the vast majority of people act within
fear and not a positive emotion… and that is why
people avoid trying for greatness… from a negative,
fear instead of the positive, taking up a challenge…
most people turn to religion and god, not from love
of god or anything positive, no, people usually turn
to god and religion when they are at the end of the
rope… they have nowhere else to turn as they have
hit the bottom… and then, then they turn to religion
and god… but who turns to god and religion
when things are going good? if one is at the height
of their career, do they turn to god or religion? if one
has a loving, stable family life, do they turn to god/religion?
No… this tells us that the vast majority of people act from
negativity, not from a positive viewpoint…
a negative state of mind is one that will allow a turn to
god or a possibly rising above the normal middle class
mediocrity… what else is there to lose when one hits
the bottom? and that is what it takes for people to
try something else…
people tend not to understand what is possible unless they
are pushed into extreme states… when they are fired
or family sickness, or losing their home to a fire… it takes
extremes situations for us to discover what is possible for
us to achieve… What would it take for people to attempt
to achieve something more than middle class safety?
I think it would take the society at large to give
permission to people to attempt to achieve
the impossible or to risk more… and why would that
be important to do? Why should we encourage people to
take a chance or attempt risks they wouldn’t normally try?
Because that is how people grow, the risk we take help us
achieve our possibilities… it is somewhat risky to become
who we are… there is a risk in trying to achieve our
possibilities… but is the risk worth the effort to grow
beyond our middle-class modest aspirations?
and the answer comes from an understanding about
what it means to be human? is being human really just
about living a risk-free suburban life? where nothing is
ventured and nothing is gained…that depends on
how one feel about what is the point or goal of life is…
is life really about living a risk-free existence or is life
about taking chances and attempting to become
something greater than what you are now…
thus is the value of Philosophy… it is a means of
understanding what values are important and what
goals are really the goals worth trying for, worth
risking for…
or said another way: ''What am I/we to do?"
and why that path and not another?
to lead a safe but boring middle class existence,
is that really what life is all about, or do we
aspire to become something greater and in doing so,
risk?
that is the choice, what choice and why that choice do
you choose?
Kropotkin