Blame, overly specific, 1sided, you.

Enough! Enough blame! It was not the fault of the skin for being in the same place as the blade, without invincibility; it is not the fault of the dagger; it is not the fault of the hand holding it; it is not the fault of the brain commanding the muscle movements; it is not the fault of the mother who gave birth to the child; it is not the fault of the society that shaped the masses of people; it is not the fault of the world in which they live; it is not the fault of the genetic lines and even the history; it is not the fault of the origin of all life; it is not the fault of the elements that exist in a stable enough measure to support existence of anything at all; it is not the fault of the universe born for whatever irrelevant and obsessed-over reason; it is not the fault of whatever spontaneously sparks any universe that it wishes, within any fabric of reality, possibility and “Laws” of physics. Nay! Then and now and tomorrow, everyone and everything ever! – all a process, a cycle, a means to an end.

If you don’t want to be blamed, don’t crash your mom’s car into a Taco Bell because you had too much to drink but felt “just fine”.

Lo.

I was just expressing myself about a problem.

People try to find 1 thing to blame, even though there is always more then one of everything, and everything is more complex then we can understand.

I’m not attacking accountability either, becase our sociery obviously needs that.

The only difference between accountability and blame is the niceness of the words. If you blame someone, you express that he needs to change and you express some hostility to him as well. If you hold him accountable, you are still demanding change but the hostility is muted. This is why accountability is used in politics nowadays where a gentle, PC touch is desired, while blame is used in more severe incidents like 9/11.