my wife is blaming me…there are frequent criticisms…she will not say what this is about…any suggestions???
yes. be more specific.
You’re a man, aren’t you? Then you are AT FAULT AUTOMATICALLY!!! How many times do I need to repeat myself???
Men ARE evil, because we are the ones capable of RESPONSIBILITY. So accept your blame and responsibility like a man. Women are never responsible for anything. I’m serious. You don’t believe me, but you will, soon enough. Just give it a week and you’ll see what I meant.
Women and children are protected minorities. ONLY MEN are capable of responsibility, or being evil…or good. ONLY MEN have free will. The world makes much more sense when you accept the truth of this. Turtle, just imagine blaming your wife for things. How would she react? How would you react? How would other people react if we started blaming women for the world’s problems???
Think about this. Women love to have sex with the big, tall, violent men…who reproduce more violent men. Do we blame women for this? No, we blame MEN for being violent, rather than blame women for being sexually attracted to violent men. But why not blame women for spreading their legs open to rapists and criminals??? Because women are BLAMELESS. Someday you’ll learn.
It is generally illegal, in the united states and elsewhere, for women to become blamed for anything negative, at all, because they are PROTECTED, PRIVILEGED special interest group. Men, however, are capable of evil…and good…and it doesn’t matter which race of man you are from. It’s still true, no matter which country you are from on earth. ONLY MEN are responsible for themselves and their actions.
Think about consent for sex. Why can’t men be raped, but women can? It’s because women have PRIVILEGE. PROTECTION. SECURITY. Men do not have privilege or protection or security. Men cannot be raped, ever. Even if a man is violently sodomized in prison by his big black pimp…doesn’t mean he was “raped”. He wasn’t. Because there is no such thing as “consent” for men. There is only violence, for men. You KNOW this. Men have no protection.
And because men have no inherent protection, no “human rights”, we are Free where women and children will never be free. You either accept security, or freedom, not both. Women are slaves, because they have no freedom, and accept the yoke of privilege. Beauty is also a privilege, which is why women are the more beautiful specie, compared to men. Men and women are separate species of animals.
my problem is in a marriage relationship…
my wife is mad about something…at least that is my take on it right now…she wont say and she wont talk about it…how do you get them to open up…she is blaming me for something…i need to know what that is…are women just blamers of men??
Your wife has stopped loving you. When they do this, they are withdrawing their love from you so you can now go have affairs guilt free.
Tell her that you love her and that whenever she’s ready to talk, you’ll be right here. Then leave it alone completely. She’ll come around. Don’t even worry. 
Yes, the entire western civilization is built off the blame and responsibility of men, it doesn’t even matter which race of man you are. Men are expected to bear the BURDEN of RESPONSIBILITY. This is represented by the life and death of Jesus Christ Our Lord Thy God, a Man of all men, who bears the burden of Sin for all mankind. He is the symbol of absolute self responsibility.
The original archetype of responsibility is also seen by the Hellenic “Atlas”, who carried the weight of the entire world on his shoulders, representing again, the spiritual strength of men. Why not a woman? Because women are incapable of accepting blame, any significant form of guilt, or general responsibility for their actions. Women have innate, biological privileges, not just in the humanoid species, but in all species. As the division between male and female gender, represents an original break in every specie, due to the expression of sexual dimorphism.
Turtle, I don’t normally recommend this, but…women demand respect from men. You need to show her who’s boss. Slap her, moderately, not too hard, with the back of your hand, if she talks back to you. I know this may seem “evil” or “mean”, but it’s not. You need to assert your authority over her. If she leaves, then don’t worry. She’ll come back to you. It’s a bluff. If she calls the police, and you go to jail, then at least you can start living your own life and escape from her tyranny over you. Because you sound pussy whipped, my friend…qwwhhhhpshhhhhhhhh!
Apologize.
This is great advice. Just let her know that you think it’s perfectly fine for her to take potshots at you at any time, while hiding behind a wall of silence as to the real reasons she has for taking those potshots at you, and that her lack of communication, while dishonest, cowardly, immature and lacking all sense of responsibility for her end of the relationship, is perfectly all right. You’ll continue to be her punching bag, her doormat, her emotional extortion victim.
It’s okay.
sounds like yet another rash and emotional marriage going wrong.
Assuming you have already communicated a willingness to communicate…
Do nothing. Wait quietly and patiently. Be ready when she’s ready.
If she’s blaming you for something, turtle, and she refused to talk about it - we can say at least two things.
First of all, it might simply be an illusion and a need for some passive-aggressive behavior. But don’t confront her with that until you are communicating again - and then only from a stance of humility and love, not arrogance and self-justification. And do not use the term passive-aggressive with her. 
If you did do something to her, and she’s not talking - and IF you are an honest, self-conscious, humble and fair kind of guy, you can pretty much figure out for yourself what it is you did. But you need to backtrack and really give it some thought and then perhaps sit quietly and see what comes of it.
Women and men are blamers of each other but I have mostly found that the ones - BOTH men and women - who put most of the blame on the other and take little if no responsibility for what has happened in a relationship - are, if not, more responsible, at least equally responsible for the hurt and chaos which is experienced.
If we are not aware of our own capacity for projection and are not capable of standing or moving away from our own light, or what we consider to be our own light, we are not capable of seeing the shadows within ourselves. And when we are not capable of seeing those shadows and those daemons, they may rise up, take us over, grab us and others by the throat and squeeze the very life and spirit out of us.
Take her to a psychologist. Or say it has to stop, as it is counterproductive to make empty critisism, and it will ruin the relation with a divorce.
I would go and say something like. It feels like you are angry at me - unless there were really open and clear signs like slamming doors and not talkign to you - what is it about?
If she says she isn’t, that can be a problem, unless she convinces you. I mean, you could be misreading her.
But if you still think she is and she denies it, one of you is wrong and it is hard to take the next step.