Bullying

[Disciple_of_light]

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Theres no need to be really nasty to anyone,and to try and make life difficult for people around you that you dislike,every person you hate or dislike has a family,and that family loves the person you hate at school or cant get on with at work,so before you speak you have to think about that,think about how you would be making those other people feel if you were actually succesful in destroying your “enemies” ambitions,which were harmless enough,they wont be pleased,suppose you win when your bullying someone and they do end up feeling hurt,your going to hurt the people that love them too because it then becomes their problem. “so what?” some say, well so what when they get attacked,and that will happen eventually if your a nasty person

Nobody has the right to bully.And kids learn to be like this because of their parents. Parents should raise their children to respect people,but if the parents themselves are hot tempered,bitter,resentful,judgemental people what can you expect ? We can expect War and unrest everywhere.But whos willing to admit to having these flaws ? These people tend to think they are fine as they are,and with that attitude it will take even longer to see the end of all this turmoil.Some say it cant ever end because of how humans are,but thats an uneducated opinion

[Rhinoboy]

@Disciple of light

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Theres no need to be really nasty to anyone,and to try and make life difficult for people around you that you dislike,every person you hate or dislike has a family,and that family loves the person you hate at school or cant get on with at work,so before you speak you have to think about that,think about how you would be making those other people feel if you were actually succesful in destroying your “enemies” ambitions,which were harmless enough,they wont be pleased,suppose you win when your bullying someone and they do end up feeling hurt,your going to hurt the people that love them too because it then becomes their problem. “so what?” some say, well so what when they get attacked,and that will happen eventually if your a nasty person

Nobody has the right to bully.And kids learn to be like this because of their parents. Parents should raise their children to respect people,but if the parents themselves are hot tempered,bitter,resentful,judgemental people what can you expect ? We can expect War and unrest everywhere.But whos willing to admit to having these flaws ? These people tend to think they are fine as they are,and with that attitude it will take even longer to see the end of all this turmoil.Some say it cant ever end because of how humans are,but thats an uneducated opinion

Its not always about the parents you know

[Cyrene]

No, infact it rarely is so straight-forward as that.

I have to repeat myself basically a million times:

Brothers raised apart are as similiar as brothers raised in the same home.
adopted people raised as brother as similiar as strangers.

*Obviously this parental influence bullshit doesn’t happen to influence people much short of outright abuse.

Environments influence people, but its largely individual/unique environment. Say sharing a family would be a shared environment, things brother A encounters outside of family life or that are unique to him and not siblings, is what largely influences people besides genetics.

Short of outright abuse, I mean.

[Rhinoboy]

@Cyrene

No, infact it rarely is so straight-forward as that.

I have to repeat myself basically a million times:

Brothers raised apart are as similiar as brothers raised in the same home.
adopted people raised as brother as similiar as strangers.

*Obviously this parental influence bullshit doesn’t happen to influence people much short of outright abuse.

Environments influence people, but its largely individual/unique environment. Say sharing a family would be a shared environment, things brother A encounters outside of family life or that are unique to him and not siblings, is what largely influences people besides genetics.

Short of outright abuse, I mean.

I agree. I don’t understand the arguments between nurture vs nature. I’m yet to meet a real life case that has not been affected by both to some extent