Do not shelter yourself against questions/ideas. Inoculate with answers/stronger ideas.
Making people shut up is not helping them think. It’s making their thoughts go underground and get worse in isolation. Ideas need to see the light of day/reason.
Right, you’re saying all that, but you’ve also apparently expressed that that doesn’t apply to a pedophile expressing his views on his own psychology, which means that those values, while perhaps dear to you, are not absolute to you.
So if they don’t apply to this pedo, who or what else don’t they apply to?
What if a non pedophile expressed that same opinion about pedophiles? That it was an unchosen sexual preference? Should that speech be allowed, or censored? Should the person expressing that idea go to prison for saying that? Or is the punishment for saying an idea like that reserved for actual pedophiles?
You have to sit with ideas and let them percolate for a while. Asking me to restate what I already said over and over again is not gonna help you understand it better. It could be that there is life experience or something that you haven’t had yet that is not allowing the ideas to unlock in your brain.
I know a fella who takes dilemmas/syntheses and presents one horn as if that was actually what the thinker thought. He can play it that way, though… good fodder for jokes later.
“I believe in free speech absolutely, so I don’t think there’s any scenario where any government or any private organisation should censor or fact check any idea”
That’s a clear position
Or how about this
“I believe in free speech almost absolutely, so I don’t think there’s any scenario where any government or any private organisation should censor or fact check any idea, UNLESS it’s a pedophile saying he thinks it’s just a sexual preference”
That’s a clear position. Both of those have clear boundaries for when free speech should end. One is: no boundary. The other is: specifically at pedophiles, but no other scenario.
You have the option to be clear. Do you not want to?
So is it the second position in my post? Free speech absolutely in all situations except for pedophiles? That’s the clearest signal I’ve had in this conversation, but I’m not certain it’s your position.
You’re talking as if I’m misrepresenting your position on purpose, but I’m very purposely trying to do the opposite of that, trying to have a situation where you put it plainly so that I don’t have to try to interpret your words and risk getting it wrong. I would like to not have a misrepresented idea of your position, and I’m working pretty hard I think at getting there. I just need your help to get there.
It feels like you think I’m attacking you. I’m not.