Ok there is this cute guy at church and Im on a mission to get his attention so what should I wear? How should I do my hair?
Please refrain from the following obvious jokes:
I really want some advice here…
Wear what you feel most attractive in, within the bounds of propriety, of course. Don’t worry what it looks like as much as how the outfit makes you feel. Men are “visual”, but it’s your face you want him to see. Put yourself in the best position to look sexy, or attractive, by feeling that way. Wear the clothes that aid you toward that end.
Do you have a pair of boots that always feel good? That you bought because of the way you felt when you put them on? I bet you do. You know what I’m tawkin abou.
Good luck.
Girl! This would like SO! look great on you…
Shut Uuuuup!
More realistically - Don’t give a toss what you wear, care much more about the quality of your dentistry and whether or not you have the brains to make me laugh.
In general, stop living life as though it were a lifestyle magazine.
You want to get his attention? Volunteer to do some hymn solo or something. Up on the daisies or whatever that thing is called. The… the stage thing with the candles.
siatd, did you tell me to Shut Up or was that aimed PhilosophyGirl?
You all lie! I mean you sit and claim that it has nothing to do with a girl’s looks…Yeah right! Oh I am SOOO sure you are interested in her mind ! 
You took me the wrong way, PG. It does matter how you look. But how you feel has a big effect on how we look. I think everyone has a shirt that others compliment us on frequently. Maybe that shirt always felt right to us. Maybe there’s a connection.
Someone help me out here. I’m not getting this out.
Wear a shirt that says “Stop looking at my chest.”
PG,
Faust is right on. When you feel really good about yourself, you will shine through. What is attractive to a man is confidence more than any one thing. You will stand taller, feel confident and attract him hands down. But be careful. Too much confidence can look like arrogance - so be vulnerable but confident. (get’s em every time).
…and there you go again. Why does it have to be a game? Why does PG have to “get em every time?”
Go play in the road lady.
PG you wear what is comfortable and clean and if the chumps there don’t like you…fuck em. (no don’t fuck em literally…I mean tell em to fuck off.)
Yeah, who wants a guy who doesn’t like you in what you normally wear? (if you do, wear a shirt that says “Stop staring at my chest.” on the front)
Detrop,
If you don’t think that male and female relationships aren’t built on the thrill of the chase you have never dated a woman - which is probably the case anyway.
PG,
Don’t just wear what is comfortable - that is ridiculous - yeah, old sweats with toothpaste stains are a real turn-on. Get real. Where something you FEEL good wearing.
I think I can be quite safe in saying that that’s exactly what faust meant. Something you feel comfortable wearing.
Like….Oh my God!!!..This is, like,……my favorite topic.
Alright, like, when I want to impress a boy….I usually try to accentuate my best feature: Yes, my brain.
So, I usually shave my head and I refuse to wear a hat, no matter how chilly it is, like.
Then I maintain eye contact and stroke the area where I want to draw his attention, like, my sideburns.
I let nature take over.
Mind-fucking is incredible.
Right on - you Greek God you. But you better tell detrop that games are part of the fun. 
Satyr, the Vulcans agree.
Alright, since you all seem to be lying to yourselves and to me, I will give you some options here.
Now I talked to this guy who said that men are into black dresses with lace gloves. I’ve decided he is either insane or just plain weird because I’ve never heard of a man being into lace gloves.
Then I got some advice about wearing fishnet stockings, I have never worn fishnet stockings in my life and don’t care to begin.
Then someone told me I should just wear some jeans and a sweater. Thats what I’ve been doing and Im single.
Then I got some advice about looking like a whorish nun --or a nunnish whore if you will. That makes sense to me, dont ask me why.
So I would like to know your opinion. Please pick from the following, I only get one chance to make a great first impression and catch this guy’s eye. Should I opt for:
A. Black dress with black heels
B. Jeans and sweater
C. Whore like dress with nun like cardigan over it
HAIR
a. Down and straight
b. up in a french twist sort of thing
c. Down with curls
d. Down with one of those adorable headbands that are really in right now
e. Half up and half down
???
Yeah, zeus, Bessy said what I meant, only better.
PG, I think I’m out of my league, here. I can’t imagine too many churchgoin’ dudes who want a nunwhore. It’s just too, well, why would you want a guy like that? Me, I like the idea, but I’m a heathen.
The black dress and lace gloves? If he’s a Madonna fan, maybe. Is he, er, um devout? Or does he just go to church because his mother makes him?
I think I’ll just go out and play in the road, now.