i know that my previous two attempts may have been the result of a little short sightedness, but i have a pretty simple paradox for you.
back in the day, a creature was born who, unlike every other creature who had ever lived, was randomly born with the ability to sexually procreate.
who did he have sex with? and if he was both asexual and sexual, and didnt immediately end his genetic line as soon as he died, why would this trait be naturally selected?
the reason why sexual reproduction is beneficial is because it allows for variety in many important areas that benefit from variety. when this guy had first obtained the dna for sexual reproduction, and then made clones of himself asexually who could then have sex with eachother for the first time in history, he had one genetic code. his clones had one genetic code. they combined two identical codes, which is not a very good way to create variety.
is asexual reproduction more difficult than sexual? that would explain it. and i suppose it could have stayed around by pure luck until the offspring with the trait did eventually develop variety after at least a few years and thousands of reproductions.
but thats not really the question that made me come back here. when you are born with a new genetic trait, and your parents dont have it, and your instincts have not yet been calibrated to force you to think about it without their help, what motivates the first couple to have sex? what could possibly make them realize that they have this completely unknown ability to do something that nobody has ever done before? did they just bump into eachother through the course of a normal life and their dna mixed together by accident? is that the ONLY way that anybody ever had sex until the instinct motivating us all to do it randomly mutated thousands or millions of generations later?
does the instinct to have sex or any complex behavior evolve right exactly alongside the ability to do the behavior?
and this doesnt just go for sex, its any complicated behavior that requires complicated instincts to accomplish. who would ever think that chunks of other animals are supposed to go into your face unless instinct or your parents told you. domesticated dogs and cats sure dont. they somehow know to kill, but they never saw anyone eat anything before that wasnt in a convenient bowl or plate, so they just leave it there, not realizing there is any connection between it and his crunchy brown balls.
so if dogs and cats need a parent to show them how to eat, who was the first one to show the first person who ever ate? the chicken or the egg? i guess it was a more complicated set of instincts that allowed the first guy to eat of his own volition as well as hunt. and then later on, the genes that allow a baby without parents to know how to eat were discarded in species who were able to watch and learn from their parents.
im not trying to prove intelligent design, so dont talk about that. im just raising questions that ive never heard answered.