Ok, so, I read that a man never really ever wants to be monogamous. That a man never really ever wants to get married but only does so because the woman he loves might leave if he doesn’t.
Now I really like one of these guys. He sleeps with a lot of women. He likes a lot of women. He’s one of those guys. As far as I can tell he is having a pretty good time.(He’s 28 )
So my question is, do guys eventually get sick and tired of the whole sleeping with a different new hot woman every other night thing -or not?
they invent medicine that will keep them erect for 4 hours when they are 60… do they get tired of it? no… are they too tired to do it? that is the question…
Just get a ball gag and melt some wax to keep him interested. If you don’t let him do everything he wants, then he’ll find someone who will and lie straight to your face about it. At least that’s what I’d do.
Most guys do want sex anytime anywhere possible, but, there is a saturation level they hit it seems. They get tired of having to do the work that it takes to get it. Thus marriage. That is why I like older men. They still want it, still are invigorated, but, are more likely to stick with one lady and her timing. Its a heck of a lot easier than hunting and it does not interfere normally with football or cop shows.
There’s some guys who are relationship oriented and some who aren’t. Some relationship guys get so twisted up over a breakup that it can ruin their lives or they might kill themselves. The player type of guy is likely much more shallow in his emotional investment and is unaffected by switching relationships frequently.
If you have a clear example of who you’re dealing with then you can decide your actions accordingly.
Never got on with it at all myself. I went through a period of a fair few one nighters. It gave me an empty feeling afterwards. But mabey thats because my first second and many after that times were with the same woman. Mabey Im just an exception to the rule, I do desire random women, but have never been one to go after that fantasy, because the reality to me does not live up to it.
holy moly. i think i get it. and it scares me…the problem ten still remains–if ever there should be a woman who chases after them, they would cheat on you in a heartbeat given the opportunity. so then my question is, what makes a man choose to be loyal to a woman no matter what?
They each give equally to each othermost of the time.
Honor and greed keep both wanting the other. Its honorable to stick with your vows and a bird in hand is better than the possible two in the bush. You get to a certain age you begin to feel it and know it… especially when you look around and all you see are sexy young people… Kind of makes the person who wants you feel like a good sexy security blanket and gives you some feelings of being sexy. You don’t want to lose what you have for a possible 2 seconds of body high. In other words you get some smarts with your greed.
There are certainly some men who get tired of it and seem happy to settle, but in my experience they are in a minority. Their partners usually like to say this is thanks to them, of course, but in my experience those men were like that from birth.
It possible its from birth or they came from a home where they watched parents hurting each other. That will change people, either good or bad.
A home where Mom and Dad do not love or respect each other can affect your attitude towards relationships. One of the goofiest things humans do is subject their kids to that. The kids are generally better off if their parents divorce and not stay together for the kids.
Most men would cheat if they thought they could get away with it… that’s a statistical fact…
If you wanna guy who won’t ever cheat then you need to find one who has been brought up with a strong value system in which cheating is wrong. Short of that… you’re only chance is to apply paranoia… give him the impresion you are watching his every move… surprise him a few times with knowledge he did not think you had… and he might get so paranoid that he would never cheat on you…
I find that with woman like that (I lived with one for 2 years) it’s because it’s them doing the cheating.
Still, I think you to be a lot smarter than the total deuche-bag she girl in question went out with, so maybe your fiance doesn’t want to cheat on you?
In my humble (not really) experience I have come to conclude that women are by nature paranoid… and the one thing they desire most is what they can not provide for themselves… security.
All I need to do in order to avoid her cheating on me is give her the impression that she’s compleatly safe with me… That i’m always on her side… that she’s never alone in any undertaking… that she is loved despite her bad qualities… ect… add to that the impression that it would all be taken away in a heartbeat, never to return, were she to cheat on me… and I have myself a loyal wife.
The only question is… can I manage to do all that… or not…
Gonna marry her… so I apperently believe I can… but still…
