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there are many many many more fish in the ocean…
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Mentioning of the boyfriend means she has unlocked the door but, you must enter. keep in mind that she is quite likely hurting and confused to. Emotions attached to mating relationships are intense and confusing for both genders. Y
ou have emotions that attract you as a person, emotions that attract on a sexual level and emotions that attract on a social/moral/ethical / will my family like this person too level.
Wether we like it or not what our family and friends think about our potential mates does influence our emotions and thoughts. So lighten up, see what is on the table and keep in mind she is traversing a path similar to yours.
Once again…leave her alone, real. ESPECIALLY if you have feelings for her.
Falling in love with a girl who is hurt, confused and probably doesn’t even know what she wants right now, is like falling in love with a tornado: she will suck you in, spin you around and then, spit you right out.
Remember how a bunch of people said that she was basically keeping you in cold storage in case things didn’t work out with the guy she actually likes?
If you decide to go for it, I hope you don’t mind being a shiny silver medal. Granted, if she is really hot, being a silver medal ain’t so bad but know what you are getting into if you decide to go that route.
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Feelings are for sissies. Just have your way with her and kick her to the curb. I bet as soon as you get another girl in the sack you wont even remember the last one’s name.
Dude, I fall in love like, three times a day.
Learn to love the burn. Ohh-ahh. It can feel nice.
Leave her alone. Don’t talk to her except maybe being cordial to her at work. Don’t call her, don’t worry about what is going on in her life. Find somebody to smooch on in front of her. My 2 cents…
Unless you can have an attitude similar to Xunzian’s (which I used to have), run away. You know, as X says, unless she is really hot. It’s good to have some self-respect, but self-respect isn’t everything.
They’re not all psycho.
I keep hoping, anyway.
Oh please. ALL women are psycho at least to some degree. In real’s case, that bitch is extremely psycho… Find a nice girl…We all need to find good girls to keep us warm at night…
Cold storage is confusion. If you are not confused you would not keep a back up. it could be just for practical reasons but hey, he does not know and we do not know, I say take that chance. Pain is not forever, but emptiness is.
I’ll disagree with that. I know a fair number of women who have openly admitted to such a practice when asked directly. People don’t like being alone, so they develop strategies to prevent themselves from becoming so. That doesn’t necessarily mean that she doesn’t like the silver medal, she obviously does to a certain degree because they are a medal winner in this game, but I wouldn’t call a clear order of preference “confusion” unless I were the person awarding the medals and I didn’t want to blow my chance with that lucky silver (or bronze) medal.