Usually adolescents have their first girl/boyfriend, a romantic relationship with kissing and stuff, maybe a few months in duration, but when it ends, it is devastating for them, or the one who’s first time it is.
Does it mean anything? Why do the memories stay attached for life?
I was wondering, cause I’m I dunno if I’ll ever understand it. I’d turn to philosophy so I’m not so confused about these matters, but I don’t think philosophy has an answer or even a subject for this.
These are my only thoughts: that in homo sapien, hunter-gatherer times, a male and female started mating during their teen years. Younger than today in the U.S. That’s why the first pair-bond is advantageous, so they will stay together in that intenseness for a long time, or life, and the child can survive like evolutionary science says.
But what do I think? I am a melancholist and mild pessimist because of the hurt comes back up at times, but I am skeptic that I’ll ever obtain another.
Alienation caused by intellect, social inclinations or lack thereof, and philosophy might make this Irony stay in place for someone in this situation.
So what does it mean or not mean?