We seem to be having/to be in, two different conversations Dan!
Who are these people and how have they/others made my life (a lot) easier? …coz the last coupl’a decades onwards, have certainly made my life a-hell-of-a-lot-worse than it has ever been.
You seem to be saying much, without not knowing much… I’m all ears, to anything other than just statements, unless they can be backed up by facts.
_ Someone said: “I sense tomfoolery in your sock puppetry. Dr. … Leo … Marvin … ??‽!! lol”
Me: Paranoia-personified, much… so projecting again? [please go seek help and leave me be, and stop quoting inconsequential brain-rot TV-characters that I’ve never-heard-of at me… I don’t watch such viewing-material as that]
…now go back to entertaining ecmantwit… coz that’s more your level of understanding and interaction —>fool level.
Love/trust/sorry (reconciling to/aligned with unfragmented/fractured whole) are the same thing. Action/evidence/change (as long as it is toward/aligned with the whole) are the same thing.
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…just as an evil/lying child loses respect in his parents’ heart, so do the evil/lying/immoral lose respect in god’s/society’s eyes.
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Love, trust, and apologies, are separate, for all but the good.
I can agree with what you wrote above…being non-judgemental.
I think that would also include, which can be a very difficult thing, learning to be non-judgemental toward ourselves. I think that it goes hand-in-hand…the tougher and more judgmental we are of ourselves the more we will also be of others.
The more we learn to treat ourselves with compassion and understanding, the more so we will have the capacity to respond that way to others.
First recognize that here is eternally subsumed there. And what passes away doesn’t ground meaning … but what eternally subsumes does.
Mo…ving on…
triggers two things
this is the first that actually triggered consciously
the second (to remain mostly untyped… moo) stayed in the background until I set out to write the trigger thing
I think that would also include, which can be a very difficult thing, learning to be non-judgemental toward ourselves. I think that it goes hand-in-hand…the tougher and more judgmental we are of ourselves the more we will also be of others.
…we can be hard on ourselves and allow liberalism for others, which doesn’t equate to having to emulate such types but to exist alongside them/each other.
MagsJ is proud of her high standards & being hard on herself.
Just in case: The eye roll is a social signal everyone understands that means “I am keeping my thoughts nonverbal because talking does nothing—even though it SHOULD do something—which is the other person’s problem, not mine”. It’s a social signal when people eye roll where others can see it, anyway. Usually under the assumptions a) they are thinking the same thing — and b) paying attention to the eyes. It can be a last-ditch to get someone to realize they are being an oblivious ass when they can do better (because they have before).