Well that’s the whole point I am making. Irregular sexuality is very important, for the sole reason that it is the child communicating abuse.
The true horror is that childhood abuse is usually, vastly usually, at the hands of parents. But even as non-parents, I think we have a collective duty not to turn away, not to pretend.
I know what you were talking about. It’s the same thing I was talking about. My point is that if a dad sees a child trying on a dress, and reacts by belting him and then signing him up for baseball or whatever, it’s not a good thing to do, but it at least shows that the father percieves something is wrong. That child more than likely is being abused.
I mean generally anything in a child that would stand out and is somehow sexual. Including sex roles.