Ned Flanders wrote,
“If you want to agrue that God loves and hates at the same time, then I think this position is certainly an option that would retain connection to scripture. My problem with this position is that it’s unecessarily complicated. The only reason to argue the “love” of God in the face of clear biblical evidence of God’s hatred, is to maintain the notion of “God’s unconditional love” that we have become used to hearing. But I find this idea poorly supported in scripture.”
Once again, there is biblical support that God loves all of creation: “You love all things that are, and hate none of the things which you have made†(Wisdom 11:25).
The argument that I am trying to make is primarily philosophical. I am arguing that God cannot will evil. He cannot will evil because He only wills what is good. In fact, “goodness is what all desire” (Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, I, 1). For God to will what is evil would mean that He mistakenly thinks it is a good, and thus would be in error. But God cannot err, because He is Truth (Cf. Romans 3:4). So God only wills what is good. Now to will good towards something is to love it, while to will evil towards it is to hate it (Aristotle, Rhetoric, II, 4). It therefore follows that God hates nothing. When Scripture speaks of God hating things, it is of a figurative nature. St. Thomas explains:
Some things however God is said, to hate figuratively (similitudinarie), and that in two ways. The first way is this, that God, in loving things and willing their good to be, wills their evil not to be: hence He is said to have hatred of evils, for the things we wish not to be we are said to hate. So it is said: Think no evil in your hearts every one of you against his friend, and love no lying oath: for all these are things that I hate, saith the Lord (Zach. viii, 17). But none of these things are effects of creation: they are not as subsistent things, to which hatred or love properly attaches. The other way is by God’s wishing some greater good, which cannot be without the privation of a lesser good; and thus He is said to hate, whereas it is more properly love. Thus inasmuch as He wills the good of justice, or of the order of the universe, which cannot be without the punishment or perishing of some, He is said to hate those beings whose punishment or perishing He wills, according to the text, Esau I have hated (Malach. i, 3); and, Thou hatest all who work Iniquity, thou wilt destroy all who utter falsehood: the man of blood and deceit the Lord shall abominate (Ps. v, 7). - Summa Contra Gentiles, I, 96.
Ned wrote,
“I agree with you. But this is the only “act” of love that God extends to ALL people. Aside from the cross, the bible is either silent about God’s affection for sinners/wicked or it suggests his hatred/wrath towards them. Therefore, it’s tough to make the case that God loves everyone, except through the ONE act of Jesus on the cross. If people choose to reject this act of love, I don’t think there is much left.”
God has hatred for the sins that the wicked have committed, and it is because He is just that the wicked are punished. What He hates is that they have not loved, as He loves. The righteous have loved and have done good to others, and so are in some way like the Father (Cf. Matthew 5:48). Conversely, the wicked are very much unlike the Father. He loves the righteous with the love of friendship (the righteous are able to return His love), and He loves the wicked with a different type of love, because they are no longer able to return His love, since they have chosen sin over Him.
Ned wrote,
“I agree with you. Not only are love and salvation being confused, but I think we all have a slightly different definition of “love”. If God condemns a human being to hell, does he still love him? By Felix’s very broad defintion, the act of God making this person shows love towards the individual. But I think it’s overly sentimental to call this love.”
To love is to will good to someone. God wills good towards everyone because he cannot will evil. As for the damned, they have chosen hell over God through their own free will. God’s justice demands that the good are rewarded and the wicked are punished (Cf. Matthew 25:31-46). As I’ve said, He loves the wicked, but with a different type of love than the love He has for the just.
Ned wrote,
“So, you at least see my point here. We agree on the love of God’s children (the “higher” love in your view). What we disagree over is the “lower love” of those God sends to hell. I would argue it’s confusing and illogical to call it love. But as long as we recognize that it is fundementally different to the “higher” love then it’s not a major disagreement.”
Simply put, the continued existence of the damned shows that God still loves them. Nothing can exist without it being willed by God, and we already know that God wills nothing but good (for Him to will evil would be an error in His judgment, and that is not possible). Again, for God to will good towards the damned (i.e. their continued existence) means that He loves them in some way.