I don’t drink tea. In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever had a cup of tea. But I’m a bit of an exception, as most people I know (especially the older generations) knock the stuff back like it’s going out of fashion. It is hilariously English, stiff upper lip and all that. Make a cup of tea and everything will be alright, even if there are nazis in your backyard and the cat has its tail caught in the mangle. The nation was founded on the notion that all you need is a cup of tea and a good umbrella.
Well, we are allowed to wave 'em but no-one has really wanted to for a long time. There’s a far-right, white supremacist political party called the British National Party (formerly the National Front) who use the Union Jack as their symbol, so it became synonymous with racism and violence to a lot of people. I think the BNP use it to symbolise a ‘pure’ or traditional Britain (i.e. one with only white people) and a return to the traditional, historical values of the old British Empire (shoot anyone who isn’t like you and close all the borders?). I shouldn’t really speak for what they believe, as I’m biased (in that I think they’re all a bunch of f*cked up wankers) but I think that about sums them up.
I imagine the perception of the Union Jack changes depending on where you live though. For instance, I live in Birmingham, which is incredibly multi-cultural and ethnically diverse, so if you hung a Union Jack out of your window many people would automatically assume you were a member of the BNP. But there are parts of the country that are fairly untouched by all this, so if you saw it displayed on a little farm in the middle of nowhere you probably wouldn’t blink twice.
Don’t get me wrong, we still use the image of the British flag a lot (the monarchy would be pretty stuck without it, and schoolchildren wave them if the Queen comes to visit their school, that sort of thing), but as a general day-to-day symbol you can drive for a long time without seeing one. Flying the flag itself isn’t racist, it’s just that you may be associated with racists if you do fly it. And that, as you so rightly put it, is trash.
(I should note here that it’s also to do with the disintegration of the British Empire, many people are just plain embarrased about what the flag used to represent so avoid it altogether)
However, the English flag (red cross on a white background, properly called the St. Georges Cross) is everywhere now, thanks to the recent European Football Championships. The whole of England simultaneously decided to attach one (or several) to their cars, windows, clothing, or anything else that didn’t move. The media were largely responsble for this, and there wasn’t a newspaper or magazine that wasn’t giving flags away at some point.
There were a few reports of companies, shops etc banning their staff from displaying the English flag as they were concerned it was racist but the majority of the population consider this to be nonsense. It seems that the mentality is ‘the Union Jack is ruined but we’re keeping the good old St George’s Cross, and if you try and stop us we’ll poke you with our umbrellas’. Or something like that.
What amuses me is that many people displayed the St George during the football to show how proud they were of the team and how they were supporting ‘our boys’, and we still played like a bunch of idiots. If flag waving equated with football success then we would have won.
Still, there’s always the Olympics…