and uh-how did that work out for you then?
I’ve never had a lover: – had a few haters though.
This is like asking if anyone has ever had a cup of orange juice.
cept you can’t fuck orange juice.
I’m sorry for even typing this… lol
Been with my gf for seven years.
“has anyone ever had a lover ?”
The question is apparently futile and as useful as, as Gobbo posited, asking if anyone ever had a glass of orange juice. However, it’s the “anyone” in the question that lead me to think of a deeper meaning, an inquiry into a concept bordering idealistic notions.
What do you mean by lover, then ? A person whom you genuinely tantalizingly love, someone who you’d give your life for in any circumstance, disregarding what he/she feels for you, a Werther kind of love, or someone who shares your intimacy and whom you feel comfortable with, whose company you find southing and therapeutic ?
I am thinking that the question behind the question could be something as “have you ever loved so bad it hurts ?”, or “do you think true love is possible ?”, or “could Romeo and Juliet be real ?”, or something…
Hello F(r)iends,
I never had orange juice. I had orange drink.
I grew up in the ghetto—too poor for orange juice.
{note: I have had juice since leaving the hood}
-Thirst4Fun
no i mean a lover…someone u just have a sexual arrangement with with no strings attached
What kind of answers do you want here?
Wanna talk to me personaly on msn about it?
Just send me a PM if you like.
Honey, maybe she really wants to know. Maybe she is young and inexperienced and wants vicariously to live through our great loves. No Gimmick Island there, just questions. You are a cheeky monkey, you are.
Happy Chanukah. Don’t forget to buy your candles, lovey.
Maybe she does, but I’m just not convinced. If we are to take her seriously it seems that PG is running her life via suggestions made by members of ILP (half of whom are crazy). She’s already asked us for a reason to live, why sex is better than no sex, why monogamy is better than polygamy and now what it’s like to have a ‘lover’ aka f***buddy.
Until PG says a bit more about herself and starts interacting in ways other than asking questions about sex I shall continue to label her a gimmick!
Good luck with her!
- ben
P.S. - candles bought, channukiah ready 
She just needs someone to talk to.
Asking questions is part of the desition/thought making process.
Please “PhilosophyGirl”, come to me if you want someone to talk to about all of this.
I will understand you better then you may estimate.
Just send me a PM or e-mail address and we can talk about it with or maybe we can msn chat about it all.
Isnt that what you want?
Dont you want to just be able to talk about everything with somebody and not get judged or givin stupid advice? Please, let me help you if i can. If you do need someone to talk to about your main concerns in life, DanMan will listen with care.
Ah, Benny. But what do we know about you? Inquiring minds want to know your dreams and aspirations. (other than Nano accessories). Otherwise, all of ILP is a Gimmick Island. I, for one, have no problem telling too much, 
We learn about ourselves by asking questions. What worries me is that PG could be eight or nine. Then we might have kiddie-Gimmick-Island on our hands. “Have you ever had a lover” sounds like a nine-year old to me.
Go figure.
Joke:
My girlfriend and I were invited to a dinner at a relative’s house so we had to go through the rigmorale of her buying a new dress for the occasion. So we went round just about every shop in town so that she could try on different dresses. She managed to narrow it down to two different dresses in two different shops. We were in one shop and she was looking at herself in the mirror and she asked me the eternal question, “Does my bum look bigger in this one, or the other one?”
Now by this time I was somewhat worn out so I just decided to be honest.
“It looks bigger in this one. In fact it looks massive. In fact, it barely fits.”
She looked aghast, “What do you mean it looks bigger, what do you mean it’s massive, it barely fits?”
I said,
“Well, this shop’s smaller.”
Everybody hush while Dan~ tries to score some easy cybersex action!
[size=200]LOL[/size]
Shit! Dont be like that!
Theres no proof. Nothing ever happened here!
Im teird of all these wild aligations,
i am not a communist!
You are a horrible speller though
Id like to spell perfect but im dyslexic and only do what i can.
Dan, does dyslexia prevent you from using a spell check? No. So, if you would like us to consider your needs, I think you should consider ours.
I also think you have to make up your mind whether you want to be treated with respect or are going to play the dyslexic, ‘get out of responsibility-free’ card simply because you couldn’t be bothered.
This is not just courtesy to us; if you want your posts to be read, you will have to use spell check. I bet less than 5% of the people here read your posts – and that’s dwindling all the time. Is that what you want?