# Honesty in Relationships Survey
**URL:** https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302
**Category:** Non-Philosophical Chat
**Created:** [August 8, 2007, 4:04am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302 "2007-08-08T04:04:54Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@RelationshipStudy](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/RelationshipStudy)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 4:04am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/1 "2007-08-08T04:04:54Z")
Hello Everyone!
My name is Amy and I am a graduate student at the University of Rochester. I am writing because I am conducting an online relationship survey for my dissertation. I also conducted an online survey for my master’s thesis for which I received many participants from your website and I thank you so much for that! If you are interested in participating in the survey I have posted the details below. Please feel free to email me with any questions and I thank you in advance for your help!!!
The Honesty in Relationships Study:
1. Is voluntary and anonymous (or confidential if participating in follow ups)
2. Can be completed online
3. Is SHORT (takes 20-25 minutes)
4. Will offer you extensive feedback on your personality and your relationship.
- 5 empirically validated dimensions of Personality and Well-being
- 5 empirically validated dimensions of Relationship Quality / Functioning
5. Includes optional follow up surveys
- Brief surveys (8-12 min)
- Occurring at 3, 6, 9, 12, 15 and 18 months after the initial survey
CLICK HERE IF INTERESTED:
[courses.rochester.edu/survey … /index.htm](http://www.courses.rochester.edu/surveys/funk/honestyT0/index.htm)
Thank you for your time and support!
Ronald D. Rogge, Ph.D.
Department of Clinical and Social Sciences in Psychology
University of Rochester
[rogge@psych.rochester.edu](mailto:rogge@psych.rochester.edu)
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### Author:  [@TertiaryMindset](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/TertiaryMindset)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 6:04am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/2 "2007-08-08T06:04:26Z")
I looked through the survey, you can’t be serious. 😲
Some of the questions are so badly asked that they need surveys of their own to make them in any way answerable with a single word or phrase.
The evaluations force your ideals of what a personality or relationship should be, and can only help to confuse someone who isn’t aware of the ineptitude of this survey.
I know you can’t be for real though. Really. Come on.   
‘‘Do you listen to the music of Diane Sarsfield’’ or some such question.
This is definately a bad practical joke ‘‘Amy’’ if that is your real name.
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### Author:  [@someoneisatthedoor](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/someoneisatthedoor)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 11:04am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/3 "2007-08-08T11:04:09Z")
The Sokal Experiment…
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### Author:  [@Kriswest](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Kriswest)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 11:48am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/4 "2007-08-08T11:48:59Z")
ROFL I am so tempted to do the survey and really skew the bell curve in a twisted way, but, being harrassed every month or so holds me back. 😆
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 9:09pm UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/5 "2007-08-08T21:09:02Z")
I just find it odd that they ask the relationship status, and they include “single” as one of the options, only to continue asking questions about your partner. Who am I supposed to respond about, my right hand?
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### Author:  [@Raven\_s\_Moon](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Raven_s_Moon)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 10:35pm UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/6 "2007-08-08T22:35:07Z")
> [@gasolineDreamer](#):
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> I just find it odd that they ask the relationship status, and they include “single” as one of the options, only to continue asking questions about your partner. Who am I supposed to respond about, my right hand?
😲 … LOL well you could have multiple partners, switching hands.
Now Amy how come your name is Ronald at the bottom?
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 11:06pm UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/7 "2007-08-08T23:06:44Z")
> [@Raven's Moon](#):
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> 😲 … LOL well you could have multiple partners, switching hands.
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> Now Amy how come your name is Ronald at the bottom?
I would, but I’d break my concentration. Not that I do stuff like that.
And maybe Amy/Ronald has multiple personalities? Or someone who will soon be receiving a sex change? The possibilities are endless… well, I guess that was the majority of the possibilities.
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### Author:  [@Joker](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Joker)
#### Post date: [August 8, 2007, 11:20pm UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/8 "2007-08-08T23:20:19Z")
I’ll say this much…
Every dam relationship that I was in they were a bunch of cheating materialistic back stabbing whores.
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 3:47am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/9 "2007-08-09T03:47:46Z")
I’ll drink to that. Let me go find a shot glass.
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### Author:  [@Raven\_s\_Moon](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Raven_s_Moon)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 4:57am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/10 "2007-08-09T04:57:42Z")
> [@gasolineDreamer](#):
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> I’ll drink to that. Let me go find a shot glass.
How you gonna drink out a glass that is shot?
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 4:59am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/11 "2007-08-09T04:59:14Z")
I’ll plug the holes in a hole-plugging fashion.
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### Author:  [@Raven\_s\_Moon](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Raven_s_Moon)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 5:08am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/12 "2007-08-09T05:08:43Z")
> [@gasolineDreamer](#):
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> I’ll plug the holes in a hole-plugging fashion.
So your a spiffie dresser as well?
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 5:09am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/13 "2007-08-09T05:09:32Z")
Only when the mood strikes me. So no, not really.
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### Author:  [@Raven\_s\_Moon](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Raven_s_Moon)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 5:29am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/14 "2007-08-09T05:29:52Z")
> [@gasolineDreamer](#):
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> Only when the mood strikes me. So no, not really.
Oh you mean when the monthly mood hits you…you have to dress up? You shouldnt allow that… hitting someone is always wrong.
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 7:22am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/15 "2007-08-09T07:22:28Z")
I know it is, but I like getting slapped around every now and again.
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### Author:  [@Kriswest](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Kriswest)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 9:16am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/16 "2007-08-09T09:16:53Z")
> [@Joker](#):
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> I’ll say this much…
>
> Every dam relationship that I was in they were a bunch of cheating materialistic back stabbing whores.
Well quit getting into relationships, start a new trend. Get a few Tshirts that declare what you want in a woman. Turn yourself into a walking billboard for the ladies. Take the guess work out.
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### Author:  [@RelationshipStudy](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/RelationshipStudy)
#### Post date: [August 9, 2007, 9:46pm UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/17 "2007-08-09T21:46:34Z")
Hello TertiaryMindset,
I first want to thank you for taking the time to look at our survey. I’m sorry to hear that you were not satisfied with the questions. If you would like to know the reason that we use those specific question please email us at [couples.survey@gmail.com](mailto:couples.survey@gmail.com). Thank you for your time and consideration.
Amy
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### Author:  [@Raven\_s\_Moon](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/Raven_s_Moon)
#### Post date: [August 10, 2007, 3:42am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/18 "2007-08-10T03:42:07Z")
Hey TM…I think she likes ya.
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### Author:  [@gasolineDreamer](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/gasolineDreamer)
#### Post date: [August 10, 2007, 3:43am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/19 "2007-08-10T03:43:34Z")
I’m more curious in why she’s Amy and then she’s Ronald, and she first gives a rochester.edu email address then a gmail address. It’s so confusing, I don’t know who to believe anymore!
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### Author:  [@TertiaryMindset](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/u/TertiaryMindset)
#### Post date: [August 10, 2007, 4:02am UTC](https://www.ilovephilosophy.com/t/honesty-in-relationships-survey/17302/20 "2007-08-10T04:02:58Z")
Raven---- If this weirdo is as messed up as gas thinks she/he is, I’d be scared if she was after me.
Amy/Ronald/StrangeSurveyPerson/Whatever!---- Hi…ha…hmm(nervously shaking). I…uh…live in…mongolia…yeah, that’s where I live…so there is no real point in coming…besides…umm…I’m…terminally ill too…so don’t try and find me, it would just make things difficult…ha…ha…hmm. (cowering in his attic)
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