OK, for the LAST MONTH, I’VE BEEN HARASSED BY A GROUP OF KIDS ABOUT HOW BORING I AM AND THAT I’M A TRAITOR TO THEM!! see this group of friends (in 8th grade, my grade) that are in my classes kind of have a hierarchy inside the group, that because a kid in that group of friends is the leaders best friend they kicked me out of the group, won’t let me back in EVER (this is only the start of it), and have set a 10 MINUTE TIME LIMIT on HOW LONG I CAN TALK TO ANY GROUP MEMBERS (not all the members are horrible to me)!!! Secondly, they let a girl (who is so conceited and full of herself that she could be a hot air balloon!!!) into the group who made me feel like worthless and like a piece of crap by saying “if you died nobody would miss you” and other stuff that is incredibly insulting to myself and probably many more intelligent people . Thirdly, there is a kid (who me and my family hate) (P.S. this kid is outside the group of friends im talking about) who spread a rumor that i masturbate during gym (the kid is wacked in the head) and this only started when he hit me and i said “stop wacking me.” These kids I would like to report and suspend them from school because I am sick and tired of going to school everyday and confronting these "boneheads " everyday and I just don’t know what to do.
The charges are:
-Sexual Harrassment
Emotional Harrassment
and finally Verbal Harrassment
These all have escalated over a few months. But I ask, does anybody think these kids are corrupt and very unethical in what they do?
Kids can be so cruel. I finished year 12 last year. Luckily most people eventually grow out of obvious meanness, and grow more accepting.
If I were in your situation I talk to your parents and teachers about it, but don’t have them let the kids know you’ve talked to them about it unless it’s really serious. You might like to find a new group to hang out with in the time being (or permanently).
In the push for social acceptance there always seem to be people who get rejected so the others can feel more accepted. Even as adults people like watching shows like Jerry Springer and thinking, at least I’m not that bad!
But don’t take my advice, I usually only had a few really close friends and spent time with them rather than in a large group, and spent time by myself or sitting quietly with a group of aquaintances when my close friends weren’t around.
Drop out of school while you still can. Homeschool yourself. Research it before you do it, ofcourse. Find other ways to socialize which are more comfortable for you.
Well, the first thing you should do is be calm with these people. Let them see that they dont piss you off. Who cares what they say? Find other friends who judge you by your personality, not your affiliations.
A good way of pissing people off who try to upset youo is by agreeing (ad nauseam) with everything they say. This frustrates them. The guy who said you pissed your pants or whatever. Agree with him. Say you always wank in gym. Say that sometimes you like to imagine his mum while you do it- thats when you have the best ones…
The way to hurt these people tthe most is to turn their own insults back on them. I know it sounds strange but if become adept at getting the better of people on their own terms, they will come to repspect you sooner or later…even if they dont admit it.
Another thing…if they are physically violent, then do take action. If not, use intelligence to outwit them if they try and embarass you.
IF someone called me boring or a traitor, I would agree with them. Yes I am rather boring. And yes I am a traitor. Anything else? Yes I agree with any other insults you throw at me too. Take it in good spirits and roll with the punches. The key is not to show any emotion or upset. If they think they dont bother you and that you clearly have better things to do with your time than take them seriously, theyll feel stupid and you will make them look stupid.
Do this the proper way. Pick the biggest one amongst them and beat the fuck out of him. Start off when you confront him with a kick to the side of the leg, right where the ankle and foot meet. (You’ll need to practice this on a shoe. You want your kicking foot to strike with the ball of your foot against his instep. Hopefully this will crush his instep and render him immobile) Then you want to practice elbowing him in the ribs with the same side arm that you used to kick the jackass - if you kicked him with your left foot, use your left elbow and vice versa. Remember though that this elbow strike is really basically a haymaker, but with your elbow. It’ll swing wide and gain momentum and then whack the fucker, hopefully, right in the liver (which’ll really double the antagonistic bastard over). Now straighten up after this elbow blow and knee the bitch right in the nuts. He’ll drop. At which point you bring the bottom of your right fist down, right where his forehead and hairline meet. (When you throw A hammerfist, you want your knuckles to be verticle, so your thumb and index finger are on top). At this point, your enemy will definitely be crying. Now, step back and say “Who the fuck is making fun now bitch? Who motherfucker? Who?” Make him say your name. kick him if you need to. But make him recognize that you just beat the fuck out of him. He needs to say out loud, with witnesses “I just got the fuck beat out of me by X”
Another thing to do after you’ve got him on his knees is to straddle his head between your legs and just put your balls right on top of him. Then you say “Bitch, I own you bitch boy. I got my nuts on your head. How’d that happen? It happened cause I’m the bad Motherfucker who can crush in your pussy head, bitch.” Give the fucker a good squeeze with your legs. Remind him of his manbitchhood.
When you’re done reminding him of your dominance, tell him that word will get out and that all this teasing and making fun will stop (not needs to stop, not should stop, but will stop). If anybody else says a fucking word to you crosswise, you’ll beat the fuck out of your little manbitch between your knees and the loose lipped jackass who decided to tease you.
Those who say, “The only thing they understand is force,” only understand force.
That said, every young boy (and some girls, probably) has healthy fantasies of blood and gore associated with evildoers (sorry! ) such as are being described here. Sometimes there is justification for stepping part of the way toward fulfilling such fantasies. However, the one who strikes first is invariably the aggressor. If they actually begin to resort to violence because you’re too brainy for them to crush verbally, that is your Pearl Harbor - do what my dad likes to tell of my grandfather doing and tackle the biggest one down a flight of stairs and leave him bleeding copiously from the face. They will not bother you again.
But if you strike first, you will be the one who suffers for it.
Pay attention to gavtmcc. Ignore Hermes. First, find a different clique. Second, when the insults come, just smile and look through them like a pane of glass. No reaction is the way to beat them up. Nothing hurts worse than to look through them as if they didn’t exist, or as if they are simply an irritating buzzy fly.
the fact that you post on this board and the sound of your nerdly predicament seem to indicate your superior intelligence. for some reason, nerds including myself take way too long to realize that nerdliness, unlike cleanliness, actually IS godliness.
these poor perpetual failures hear you talking about some complicated subject for 10 minutes, and every word that comes out of your mouth confirms to them further and further that they will always be inferior to some smart guy. this angers them. anger and the subsequent behavior it causes is the emotion that most often leads to their success in a confrontation. theyll just start yelling at you and you dont expect it so you dont know what to say and you just react wrongly in some embarassing or defensive way and they see that as a win for them. they will try to win every time they are reminded of the fact that you have a superior brain and therefore will have a superior life.
the thing that kills the adolescence of almost all nerds is the lack of confidence created by these angry inferior animals. for some reason the chicks love them and they are ‘normal’ as in most people are idiots just like them. the key to possibly saving your life and developing through high school like a normal person is realizing the truth, not only are you not at all inferior to anybody, you are almost definetely superior to almost everybody you meet. and if youre not, at least tell yourself you are, and make other people think that thats what you think. cause if it looks like thats what you think, then it looks like thats what you also are. if you defensively say ‘shutup you big bully’ and cry and tell on them nobody will respect you because theyll see you as a wuss who cant stop people from hurting him on his own.
what no nerds seem to realize is that most people do have low self esteem, and some are better at hiding it, or are better at fooling themselves. what you need to do is constantly be on the lookout for opportunities to make these people look like retards. absolutely smash it in their face. make them feel like the biggest failures who were ever born with fetal alcohol syndrome. hopefully, youll destroy their confidence so badly that youll pity them. at that point, you will have succesfully convinced yourself that you are superior, and your behavior will reflect that.
yeah, if you cant respond in a way that will make them look like retards, if the sentence doesnt instantly come to mind, then dont say anything. dont force the insults, they have to come to you. if you try too hard to insult them and they dont actually make them feel stupid, then youll look like youre being defensive which will work against you.
looking through them is good, rolling your eyes should really get their blood boiling. their increased anger will most likely increase the chances of them saying something stupid that you can make fun of.
The whole idea is to make it clear that they, and their insults are irrelevent. In other words, - DISMISSED. The only thing that keep’s the ‘game’ going is your reacting to their BS. When you no longer react and they become part of the ‘furniture’, the game is over. It’s not a question of winning, which make’s you look just as stupid as they are, it’s more like saying, “excuse me, I came in the wrong door.”
My suggestion: Be strong and don’t even care about what other people say. They are only judging you and if you know in your heart that they are wrong that’s all it matters.
Anyway, school is only a passage to go through life. What matters are your marks, so you should only concentrate on that because it will determine your future. That’s what might determine if you will be accepted in a college or impress a future boss. Those kids will only be a bad dream in a couple of years. No need to make trouble and enemies for nothing using violence or bad words. Just don’t play their game…
Yeah for Hermes, I am a small person and was always picked on up until about 4th grade. It stopped in 4th grade because, like fio’s situation, the leader of a “group” was messinbg with me and i beat the sont out of him. Ever since then i have let people know, not arrogantly, that if they are to mess with me i will tear their arm off and beat them in the head with it. this constant fear of me is kept in line by occasionly punching a moron in the arm for making a dumb joke. Now fio, i am not suggesting that you beat him to near death but just get him down so he can’t do anything to you ie headlock, full nelson, leg lock, handcuffing to a pole, or whatever an infuriated 8th grader can think of. Also unless you go to school where 9th grade is in middle school (yes it does happen) then these fiends (that isn’t a typo) of yours won’t have any “bigger guy” to come and get you very quickly, if there is a big brother then, well, you’re screwed unless you have a big brother too or a baseball bat. Good luck, and yes these kids are morons that deserve to be killed but i advise letting the rulse take care of that.
ok, well I’ve got even more insults from this girl that my name is the equivalent of the “f” word!!! Now don’t you think that as cruel. I ask you all, why are these kids all targeting me? Why not target the 6th grade dork? This leader of this group recently took a survey of the people in my class group on if “i’m boring or not” and everyone said I was boring except myself!!! Should I change myself to avoid ridicule?
o i forgot to clarify that this girl said that my LAST NAME is equivalent to the “f” word (im not going to reveal my last name) and she had a manical laugh when she admited it!!! And this a new girl to the school!!!
Secondly, they let a girl (who is so conceited and full of herself that she could be a hot air balloon!!!) into the group who made me feel like worthless and like a piece of crap by saying “if you died nobody would miss you” and other stuff that is incredibly insulting to myself and probably many more intelligent people 
