Everything in the world is changing and human’s life is a trivial inseparable part of it, the important thing that almost always has been ignored. We were born in a day, have been growing up and will die some day. Only a few of us fully recognize these changes and their purpose. So, all of us have been experiencing such an obligatory involuntary changes in our life. Like wise, along with those, we have to apply some voluntary, sometimes impelling, changes in the way we live.
The most obvious obligatory and unpreventable change in the life is aging, the process which changes us dramatically from birth to death. A few people is lenient, deliberately accept and get along with the condition while others vainly evade. Aging alters various aspects of our life. Despite the fact that it may distort our body image, it usually accompanies improved insight and attitude in elderly. From spiritual viewpoint, other intuitive changes of the life are determined by destiny and fate. In a predetermined time we are born and will die. In midst, too many unavoidable events change our life, which we are obliged to abide by. Except some situations, many believe we are not capable to dispute and alter destiny. We are forced to accept the imposed alterations, such as death of spouse, which may change our life totally.
On the other hand, life always keeps moving on and on all around the world. Nobody remains secure. If we impede the flow of the river of life, it would change into a stinky swamp in which we would be dipped in. Therefore, sometimes we have to apply radical changes in our life aiming to reinforce the spinning of the wheel of life. These alterations, such as entering the university, quitting a job in order to find a more desirable career, getting married and becoming parents, are usually applied intentionally and with lots of toil. We are responsible for these important entrusted changes; therefore, they have to be applied with more concern in appropriate stages of the life, as a simple mistake may dwindles our soaring ambition and bring us to the edge of annihilation. As far as I am concerned, these decision making periods are the most important predestinating stages delegated to us. Most authorities believe that marriage is the most critical step in the life; a suitable matrimony brings spouses to the summit of satisfaction. If we aspirant for a better life, we must pursue and struggle for applying essential changes actively, not remain still and just go through motions to the end of life.
In conclusion, our world is the world of change. People think differently, so their goals and needs are different. In order to be satisfied and prosperous in our life, we have to modify some obligatory unwished alterations and apply necessary changes at the proper time without missing the opportunities.
While many believe human, on the contrary to animals, is free to make voluntary choices and devise its own future, life is no more than obligations to me. Destiny, in my opinion, is the main factor that formulates your future and decides what would happen to you later on in life, regardless of your plans and arrangements …… As a result, one should not confront its destiny as any changes would impede the unwavering flow of the river of life; at the end, however, everyone would reach the predetermined future.