This will be my last post for some time,
I thought I would throw something up in the air… he he he.
Every human being has limitations and every living being has potentials (this applies to all substances).
Every human being also has an identity construct and this construct is formed from many parts.
Part of this construct is how a person incorporates their limitations and their potentialities into their construct.
A confident person will always have a greater emphasis on the potentialities within their construct and a lesser emphasis on the limitations within their construct.
An arrogant person, a person who feels guilt, or a person who feels judgement tends to place more emphasis on the limitations within their construct.
There is no difference between the two persons as both have potentialities and both have limitations.
The only difference is what they choose to focus on (they both have limitations and potentials).
If we focus on our limitations and on who we currently are - then we are self imposing limitations upon ourselves.
Focus on our potentialities and we open the doors to possibilities - we gain confidence and healthy pride.
Pride in who we can become rather than pride in who we are.
Pride in who we can become is not a function of the ego.
When a child sees their sport hero at a live game the child is inspired and when playing that sport takes on the characteristic of their hero. The child imagines themselves with the qualities of their hero and this opens the doors to possibilities for the child. It inspires the child as the child focus on what they can become and not who they currently are.
When we grow up we begin to identify with our limitations and we rapidly become discouraged and lose confidence. We then seek to blame others or society.
Maybe this is what it means to become more like children.
Questions:
What are your unique potentialities as a human being?
What are your limitations as a human being?
Which do you focus on more?
Any genuine spiritual path, psychological treatment and humanistic movements encourage us to identify with our potentials while at the same time using our limitations to achieve those potentials.
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