This requires a ‘philosophical argument’? If just looks like a question to me 
By the way, full stops go at the end of sentences. Capital letters go at the beginning of sentences. Let me know if you would like help in recognising sentences, bot.
And what would you see within yourself if that desire ceased?
People who dislike me because of that wouldn’t be able to use that against me and I wouldn’t care about women anymore leaving time for other things.
And why would you not care about women anymore?
I wouldn’t have the sexual feeling to care about them anymore for the most part.
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Being with one singular woman is hard enough, those men that try to go with multiple women simultaneously in my opinion are suckers for cruel punishment. I have never understood why they intentionally punish themselves like that, seems like a foolish endeavor.
Date one woman at a time, you’ll save yourself a lot of trouble.
There is more to a commited relationship than just sex alone. If you’re approaching women for sex only you won’t get very far with them.
Women like to present themselves like a puzzle box to unravel and to put back together again. Each puzzle piece are emotions, feelings, information, and opinions to understand. If you make no attempt to understand them they’ll think you’re ignoring them and then they’ll become angry.
Also, men who have had a lot of sex their entire lives the act itself overtime becomes a mundane itch that is scratched every so often. Young men obsess over sex, but when you get my age it just loses its glamor.
It’s like drinking every wine in the world and overtime all the wine loses its luster because you’ve drank every single one. Some day you may come to understand these sentiments for yourself.
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I am sincerely trying to help you.
You need to find confidence and a strong center in yourself. When I was a younger man I had the same thoughts you’re having right now and I also was very much alone.
I am trying to guide you to being a better version of yourself so that with confidence you can find a woman. Don’t shoot down the messenger here, especially someone who is trying to help you.
Has going at it alone helped you yet so far? If not, perhaps listen to others that are trying to help and stop telling yourself that things are hopeless. Things are only hopeless because you tell yourself that they are. You just need to snap out of that mindset my man.
So outside of a sensual feeling you would not feel anything for a woman? Why?
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The wine analogy is accurate about not just women but life in general.
The simple truth is that people have a hole within them. Many use pleasures of the various sorts to nullify the hole, unknowing that it just deepens it.
What was once satisfactory ceases to be satisfactory and the desire to repeat the once present state of satisfaction magnfies the desires to a greater degree of what they where prior to the satisfaction.
In some respects it almost better not to have deep satisfaction in certain things.
The best piece of advice, I have learned and practice(d) over the years, is to not try to become full but rather become empty.
Remove layers, do not add them.
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I don’t know what I know is that I feel sexual feelings nothing more for the most part.
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Disagree feeling emptiness is depressing.
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Do you like, dislike, both like and dislike or neither dislike nor dislike women outside of sexual gratification?
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If depression is present than depression is present and that is not emptiness as depression is present.
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I don’t dislike or like them except for my mom and women that I have to interact with day to day but other than that I don’t hate or love women I just have sexual feelings for ones that I find attractive that is all.
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You are going to have to learn some self-discipline in where and how you pay attention to women. If you do not learn some basic self-discipline then your life will get harder…not easier.
Sexual attraction is normal, but the degree of which you have it is tormenting you deeply. I have seen this before and the truth is you have a problem a million guys have (and alot of women too in certain degrees). No offense, your not special. If you learn just basic self-control of your attention you will suffer less.
Will the suffering go away? No, it will not.
Will it be less and more manageable? Yes, absolutely.
To be frank, if you had sex with the woman of your choice you would not solve your problem. Most likely you would become addicted and then your circumstances, the women in your life, would have control over you rather than you with how you face your circumstances.
Control your eyes and mind. If you do not know how then try this:
You catch yourself staring at a women for 10 seconds, cut it down to 5.
You catch yourself wanting to look at women, direct your attention to something else that will be to your real benefit.
You catch yourself thinking about a woman, acknowledge the thought, acknowledge that you enjoy it… and then let the thought pass through your mind. Don’t fight it. Let go of it.
Pay attention to where your attention goes, where you attention goes so does your energy. And all your energy is going to needlessly being tormented.
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I’m sure you’re aware of this song but on the offchance your not here’s the link…
Creep
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