I need my own drama thread...

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For those of you paying attention,

A woman I feel deeply in love with chose to be with a man she was already in love with before she met me. She severely broke my heart in the process of being with her ex-bf. Now, she’s decided to get engaged to him and tells me this information when she knows that I love her, because I’ve told her before. She has officially mind-fucked me… :cry: :cry: :cry:

So… Just when I was about to lose hope in my life of meeting “the right one”, guess what happens?

The love-of-my-life from high school walks in from out of nowhere–we’re now emailing (I don’t know where it will lead)… :smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

Funny shit–I could write so many damn books from the weird, fucked-up shit that’s happened in my life with relationships and whatnot.

The thing is… I don’t even like drama, at all. :imp:

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Ride the wave, dude. Stuff like this doesn’t usually happen your whole life, unless you are some kind of beatnik artist or something. People get married, have kids, get real straight, turn Republican. Enjoy this stuff while it’s there - “win” or “lose”. No matter how much pain it causes - the pain goes away, but some good memories usually remain. Unless it’s really crazy shit, but that’s a separate problem - as long as it’s fun, stay on the ride until they close the park.

Fuck that last bitch - you probably would have done the same to her if the love of your life showed up whole you were still with her.

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she’s being a bitch. she doesn’t know what she wants and shes playing all her options… i know her type… i loved a girl once too.

if you keep up the email crap for long enough it may lead to something more if here ex-bf doesn’t work out.

my advice is to ask yourself why you love her.

is it her smile?

her body?

her intelligence? (its never intelligence).

consider what you want out of a life partner and if she can provide it.

if not give up now.

if so, ask her why she is tormenting you.

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This makes me think of an old rap song from the early 90s.

Bitches aint shit but hos and tricks…

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That sounds like gospel where I’m from.

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I picked up a guitar last December and I’m getting pretty good at it I think. So when I lose all my money and turn into a bum someday, at least I can make some more playing some heart wrenching songs.

Yes, this shit is like an amusement park–that’s a good metaphor.

I’ve been on the same ride for too long though and it’s making me sick. It’s time for a different ride…