She doesn’t realize that she’s gonna end up with some alcoholic who beats her then gives her a credit card to go to the mall. I’m with you Faust, she should commit suicide. Either that, or show us a pic so we can tell if she’s really in a position to be that selective, or if this is just a moot point.
Smears - you know, it’s an extreme solution. But we’re talking extreme shallowness.
Hey - maybe this guy wants to make more money - sometimes teaming up helps. You know, two people on each other’s side. Partners.
Maybe he wants to be taller…oh. See, there we are.
Suicide.
It may be the only way.
I think you have to be willing to help each other. When you need help. You need to be on the same side about some stuff. You need to like each other enough for that. Or just end it.
Only if you look at it as settling. Why not just accept the little things you don’t like? I mean really, there is not a single one of us perfect, we all have something about us that could be seen as annoying or less than good.
For instance, if I were to write out my description of the perfect man a few years ago, it would include someone who was taller than me and participated actively in theatre.
The person I am with right now is about 4 inches taller than me and does not participate in theatre at all, but I consider him to be perfect. You prioritize.
Intelligence and kindness is much more important to me than height. You pick your values.
Of course everyone has certain attributes that they visualize there life long partner having but I think the most beautiful part of finding your counterpoint is that your idea of “perfect” changes to fit your loved one.
I think that everyone thinks up the “perfect” mate for themselves at some point…but when confronted with someone who has the more important qualities, they realize that some of the atributes they thought up just aren’t all that important. For most people, things like height, wealth, eye color…these aren’t as important as things like intelligence or values.