If the 1 U luv doesnt have it all , do u keep looking?

Ok so look:

  1. If the one you love doesnt have all the qualities you want such as wealth and height preference, do you dump them and keep looking?

  2. If you keep looking and at age X you still havent found that someone who is all that you want, do you then settle?

  3. What if by age X you cannot get anyone half as decent and then you end up a sad miserable singleton for life?

You still have you, and no-one will love you like you ever will. :wink:

I wouldn’t settle, personally, or you’d never feel truelly satisfied!

Wealth or height?

No, what you do is realise that you are hopelessly shallow.

Just kill yourself.

She doesn’t realize that she’s gonna end up with some alcoholic who beats her then gives her a credit card to go to the mall. I’m with you Faust, she should commit suicide. Either that, or show us a pic so we can tell if she’s really in a position to be that selective, or if this is just a moot point.

are you a gambling man?

Smears - you know, it’s an extreme solution. But we’re talking extreme shallowness.

Hey - maybe this guy wants to make more money - sometimes teaming up helps. You know, two people on each other’s side. Partners.

Maybe he wants to be taller…oh. See, there we are.

Suicide.

It may be the only way.

I think you have to be willing to help each other. When you need help. You need to be on the same side about some stuff. You need to like each other enough for that. Or just end it.

Unless the sex is really good.

If I recall from her previous posts: Ice is a she!

Settling for less breeds resentment - on that basis: I wouldn’t. [-(

Only if you look at it as settling. Why not just accept the little things you don’t like? I mean really, there is not a single one of us perfect, we all have something about us that could be seen as annoying or less than good.

Why are you looking?

You prioritize quite simply.

For instance, if I were to write out my description of the perfect man a few years ago, it would include someone who was taller than me and participated actively in theatre.

The person I am with right now is about 4 inches taller than me and does not participate in theatre at all, but I consider him to be perfect. You prioritize.

Intelligence and kindness is much more important to me than height. You pick your values.

I like this post.

If a woman doesn’t have what I am looking for I usually point her to my front door.

Of course everyone has certain attributes that they visualize there life long partner having but I think the most beautiful part of finding your counterpoint is that your idea of “perfect” changes to fit your loved one.

I think that everyone thinks up the “perfect” mate for themselves at some point…but when confronted with someone who has the more important qualities, they realize that some of the atributes they thought up just aren’t all that important. For most people, things like height, wealth, eye color…these aren’t as important as things like intelligence or values.

I completely agree, at leased that was the case with my boyfriend and I.

If the woman does have what you want, do you point to her back door?

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