In depth reasons why I am incel

1 I don’t see the same people day to day even though I go to the same old places the people outside and inside the places are always different. 2 sex costs money and as someone on welfare it’s too expensive. 3 women outside and on dating apps do not care about me even if women find me attractive outside they never come up to me and tell me and on dating apps I occasionally match with women but the conservation goes nowhere and because of that it ends quickly. 4 I have social anxiety so because of that I have a great deal of trouble talking to strangers and maintaining conversations. 5 my interests music, pornography, video games, philosophy, psychology just don’t align with most women. 6 most women do not have the high sex drive/sexual feelings that I have. 7 the majority of women in Edmonton are older than me meaning they don’t want to get with someone or let someone have sex them who is younger than them.

Having pornography as an open (or closet) interest is inconsistent with being interested in philosophy and psychology. Have you ever done the research on pornography stats in terms of Mental Health? Have you ever thought that maybe pornography doesn’t appropriately value people?

Don’t get me wrong… physically fit bodies are sexually attractive for a reason…they are meant to be enjoyed in the proper context. I’m not trying to shame you. It’s perfectly natural to be attracted and want to see it all the time… in action, even.

What if you tried completely cutting it out of your life … do you think it could change how you interact with people and see/value them if you only saw people naked after having actual conversations with them in the proper relationship context?

No older woman is going to believe a younger man wants to be with them unless the male shows interest—they aren’t just going to walk up to you. Or anyone else.

You are welcome for the smirk on your face, liar.

Wrong being interested in pornography doesn’t stop me from also being interested in philosophy and psychology.

OK, but then there’s everything else I said with the inconsistency of it all. Would you care to elaborate on your interest in psychology and philosophy? Why are you interested?

If it’s because you’re attracted to people who are interested in it and you just want to get inside their heads because of your interest in pornography, then you’re not actually interested in philosophy & psychology, are you?

Cards on the table, foo.

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Those two things interest me because I want to understand why I have mental illnesses that’s one reason another reason is because I want to find the truth and I want to find objective meaning and I want to be able to determine what things are important and what things are useless.

Is your interest in pornography related to philosophy and psychology more than your own sexuality? If not, I call bull***.

Not sure what that means ?

Neve’ moind.

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