If races existed, which they obviously don’t, duh, then I believe one of these races, more than all the others, would be the “most individualistic” race. This one, particular race, seeks difference, separation, uniqueness, originality, and distinction. Individuality is the highest value and prize, among this particular race. And the males and females of this race, both have a different approach to this individuation, and separation.
I believe that males have a natural tendency to separate from society, and become individuals, more than females. Call this “sexist” if you will, it might be. I don’t know, I’m just guessing. So let’s not make a big deal about this. Let’s say it’s possible. It’s possible that males are naturally divisive and distinct. It could have something to do with male expendability, maybe. But, the females of this race are also individualistic and want “equal pay for equal work”. So both males and females of this race are individualistic.
But between males and females of this race, the most individualistic people, are males of this race.
This creates a problem between the males and females of this race.
Because as I see it, in my life, females tend to copy the males they admire, are sexually attracted to, and want to emulate. A female becomes seduced by this male, and in order to get his interest, sexually, she copies him. I see this very often in romantic couples of this particular race. The female adopts the clothing style, and the sub culture, of the male she sexually desires. For example, there is 1 girl in an engineering class, with 29 other males, of this race. She has a lot of selection, advantage. She doesn’t have to compete against other females. And she gets to choose from 29 males. This sounds like a good deal.
But is it??? NO!
Want to know why? You don’t? Shut up, too bad, I’m going to tell you anyway.
It’s a bad deal, because this 1 female engineer will have an enormous pressure to adapt to the sub-culture of her group, which is, engineering, stereotypically a male dominated sub culture (stereotypes are evil and I hate them, there should be a quota to force 15 girls into an engineering class, and only allow 15 males, an equal amount).
And this might be difficult for the female, since she will need to perform some mimicry, some emulation, some copying of the males of her group. She attempts to copy what the male engineers do, say, dress, think. And this last one is the most important. She attempts to copy how males think.
That maybe much harder, to copy how somebody thinks. Because what if somebody is lying to you, or being dishonest, or only presenting half truths? What if you attempt to copy somebody, and they are using a persona, a false version of their true self? That would be difficult.
I forgot where I was going with this post. The point is, that this one race has the most need to “be an individual” and “stand out” and “be different”. And this need for difference, for uniqueness, is different between the males and females of this race. I think this particular race, the females, adapt really well to other cultures, because the females of this race, have the hardest struggle to adapt to the males of the same race, because the males of this race are very, very innovative and effective at separating, being different, and becoming “individuals”.