Yes we were, though theres some reason to suspect violence against women wasn’t as high as it could have been, i’m talking about likelyhood to die as a male in tribal warfare or violence oriented wasn’t as low as most left anthropologists make it out to be.You could probably find a specific example of exactly that, neighbors bashing in each other’s skulls.
theres a huge point i want to make too, and one which might not be as rational or as logical as I tihnk it is, but i’ll give it a go anyway.
For a human to be able to survive in a tribe that was exposed to agriculture, a tribe that is ruthless, devious and cruel in such amazingly clever ways there would need to have been significant adaptive pressure on humans in the past to adapt protective mechanisms against human predation, the fact that the adaptations work so well under such brutal circumstances would lend some evidence to suggest past humans were indeed one of our largest predators. Many anthropologists do say that the homo genus was our own greatest enemy, our mental architecture is rife with evidence of this.
For a modern day human to survive in super intelligent/cruel tribes in which everyone is a head-hunter at one point or another and so so in super-complex ways, for people to ever survive their foes they would have needeed to encounter a super selection in the past, for detecting human threats.
Some ‘tribes’ after agriculture are brutal and devious in ways we can’t imagine, and will kill man woman or child, the fact that another tribe ever survives an encounter with them, or even originally survived an encounter, or the fact that humans routinely survive such brutal encounters with each other, even without having prior experience with them, is suggestive of somthing, people don’t naturally ‘think’ things out in these situations, there would be no time, our brain takes fragmentary information and alarms us of HUMAN threats.
so the idea that we weren’t violent is dead, the idea that we weren’t very violent is dead, the idea that we were less violent then now under serious, serious, serious question, and thats just from cognition specialization alone.
I don’t think this idea is original with me and may have been somthing i read in atran or another’s work, just incase I am taking credit for someone elses elaboration/explanation.