In Greek mythology, Sleep is the brother of Death. That is, he is not Death, but is he a simply a part of life? Sleep has conscious and unconscious stages—dreaming and dreamless stages. Death is like dreamless sleep, whereas life is like a dream…
As for qualia, yes, I suppose I too am a Jacksonite. A subject is a being about which the question “what’s it like to be that being” makes sense and has an answer; an object is a being about which the question makes no sense and has no answer.
(I suppose we could distinguish between real and unreal subjects, with an unreal subject being a being about whom the question makes sense but doesn’t have an answer, but that would really just be another object: an object of imagination. And in fact, all objects are imaginary like that, being mental constructs on the part of subjects. They may consist of subjects or a subject may consist of them, but they themselves don’t really exist, e.g. in Heidegger’s sense: “Dasein existiert”!)