Tentative, until recently, same-sex marriage was illegal everywhere. Now, it’s legal in Massachusetts, and some civil-union rights are granted in Vermont, for instance. Rhode Island is considering allowing full marriage or some form of civil union - which is the part that counts. The Massachusetts law was actually brought about by a lawsuit and similar suits are pending in other states. There has already been progress. New York could be next.
Gay people have been migrating from the shitholes of america to more liberal places in america for a very long time. That will continue, especially if there is more to gain from it. The real issue is civil rights - rights of inheritance and medical decision-making, for instance. Progress in this area can be made piecemeal, and is. Parts of america are better places for gays to live than they were even a few years ago.
Many more people in this country will accept the enhancement of finacial and legal rights for gays than will accept that thing we call “marriage”. The strategies employed so far have been only partially successful, but that is because the gays are fighting emotion with emotion - they are often going for all at once, and lack patience. I don’t think that will last. There are states that allow some of these rights, but won’t allow a full marriage. This must be capitalised on.
Myself, I think it’s all very unfortunate. I am still a legal resident of Massachusetts, I still spend a lot of time there. Since gay marriage has been allowed, do you know what has happened? Nothing. I agree wholeheartedly that the religious right is about as wrong on this issue as they usually are.
The religious right wants no casinos, no barrooms, no whorehouses, no gays, no fun. They sure don’t want me. They are a pain in the ass, as far as I am concerned. And sometimes they thwart casinos, yet there are still plenty. If you can afford to gamble in one, you can afford to get to one. If you can afford a hooker, you can find one - but you can’t find them everywhere. I am saying that they never win absolutely. There are dry towns, yet the country is full of alcohol. This issue is no different, it’s just new. The fight has only just begun.
Does it make sense to persecute gays? Not to me, no. But remember when the religious right wanted to boycott Disney (which does extend employee benefits to gay partners)? It didn’t work. The opposition to gays is not as fierce as the rhetoric would suggest. Disney is a company that employs many gay people. Bible Belters love Disney. There are many cracks in their armour.