Most humans don’t get higher quality love in their life, and this has a very wide range of symptems.
Fear & lack of inner strength seem to be the main problems.
From fear and lack of inner strength comes a vast array of symptems, including but not limited to:
Paranoya,
Anxiety,
Exasporation,
Terror,
Meaninglessness,
Loneliness,
The feeling of being valueless,
Guilt,
etc.
Too many things to list.
I’m always surprised by the disparity between the love and friendship portrayed in movies and the kind of love I know couples in these modern times to have.
Couples I know, husband and wife even, make more jeaoulsy plays than actually loving gestures.
It makes me think there is no such thing as love, above a basic caring nautre. There is no higher ideal of that emotion, but I’d love to hear otherwise. Tell me how you think love does exist, above sympathy cards.
Jealousy is actually a form of agression, I believe.
A person agressively protects their terratory, even if that terratory is a living, human heart.
When something is faught over, the battle grounds get trenches and mortar shells dug in. It’s a sad mess.
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But, there are species other then humans, and rare new spiritual evolutions of humans – which can love in ways which normal people just can’t.
People should be moderate in how much they want eachother.
Most people want to feel as much as possible. The extremists, I don’t know what they’re trying to prove…
But…
Atleast for me, I wouldn’t expect another to feel what I wanted.
I wouldn’t expect another to play some stupid games.
Everyone has their own right to live, and they should work at it as a team.
Self-control & self-understanding will drastically increase a person’s quality of life and quality of love given.
One of the good descriptions I read about the higher form of love is in Kahlil Gibran’s “The Prophet”. In case, if you haven’t read it before, you can read it here.
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.†- Lao Tzu
thanks, man.
I like the tao.
humble as water.
And is love from fools a form of poison?
hahaha
in 1 word no, but i question wether you know what your asking or talking like a shakespearian time romantic…?
agree. There has been studies done with baby monkeys where psycologists has set up complete isolation, and in most cases, the baby will die, even with good nutrition.
I was thinking of a kind of similar idea a while ago. What about actual “touch.” Can human touch heal in a way? I think it is possible, but I have no idea how or why.