I think it’s important to use less inflammatory and insulting language when we talk to people with different political ideas. I am certainly guilty of this myself, but I am going to try to improve that.
Why does it matter the words we use in political discussions/spaces? Two important truths recently coalesced in my understanding:
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Ratcheting up the negative and insulting words is increasing the overall tension, stress and anger in society, leading to more chaos and less thoughtfulness. IQ is going down as a result, on both sides.
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Society functions politically through a dialectical process, it requires opposing sides. But it also requires that these opposing sides not be SO opposing they cannot meaningfully function or even interact together. The animosity needs to be there for productive competition and emergence of syntheses to appear, but too much animosity and the optimization breaks down.
I don’t think any of us wants a civil war. It may seem silly or impossible to consider that another civil war could occur, but it really isn’t that far fetched. If the anger, opposition, stress, frustration becomes too much either side can initiate it. Depending who is in charge of the federal government, that party would have the upper hand initiating the separation. It could simply begin as a financial or legal separation, perhaps the federal government and/or a group of states would declare certain other state governments invalid, illegal, traitorous, terroristic, etc. The language can always be adjusted to fit the psyops and mass mood of the moment.
Maybe separation is inevitable, two Americas, but we should think hard about what that would mean. War gives unlimited power to governments to do whatever they want. Populist governments in a state of war have rarely been a good thing for the people living under it. The line between left and right blurs into totalitarianism for all, on both sides, and the party that wins will merely indicate which particular form of tyranny the people will now endure.
So let’s try to be better than that. See the best in each other. For example, I tend to rip on liberals a lot here, but I also rip on conservatives when I feel it’s called for. But in fact I see the good and truth-seeking, truth-responding nature in people on both sides. I really do. But like everyone else I too get caught up in the back and forth game of cheering a side or enjoying exposing some idiocy. I may want to expose errors and insult what I think are dangerous levels of ignorance and bad thinking, in part just to put it in its place but also as a means of hoping to goad that lower level toward a higher level. Still though. I can be better, I think we all can try to be better.
That doesn’t mean giving respect that isn’t there or compromising our beliefs. We should have a war of ideas. That is the nature of a free society, it is also the nature of philosophy. But to have a successful war of ideas means we all need to have thicker skin, so to speak. And stop trying to make things personal about a person, who they are; stick to attacking the ideas, not the person who espouses them.
Less emotionalism, more maturity. Less escalation of language, more precise conceptualizations. Less rubbing mistakes in their face, more humility and empathy. Less short term gain, more long term intentions. Less fun “owning the noobs” (sure we can still do some of that) and more trying to find the areas of compromise and overlap in our positions, to the mutual exploration and productive development of truths in the world.