Life and death are deeply intertwined.
Death has raised the standard of life. It continually pressures the living to rise to the occasion.
Without death, life would have stagnated long ago.
To discredit death, to attack it, is to deny part of existence. To undermine part of existence.
One can’t truly appreciate life as it is, without also appreciating all which has moulded it and defined it.
It’s not in the spirit of life to be overwhelmed and call defeat. Rather, to live, is to flow along the river of affect and flourish in it’s streams. To revel in the journey, the experience, the opportunity.
That which is incapable of doing this, isn’t well adjusted to living. But we are powerful beings, and can readjust accordingly. Once again rise to the occasion.
What is Death’s perspective?
Death doesn’t have bad intent for me. He is not my enemy, just misunderstood.
Death loves me just as much as my mother, Life.
However, he will take the role of the strict enforcer if necessary.
He doesn’t seek to be liked. He seeks to do the right thing.
He isn’t prejudiced against my current state.
He looks at a wider scope.
He says, ‘You like how you are now. I know. But you must grow, you need to be strong. I’m going to break you down. When you pick up the remnants, you’ve an opportunity to build the strongest version of yourself yet.’
Or, ‘I have many children to attend to. You’ve had your time, it’s time to step aside and give others the room to spread their wings. Be brave, we’ll come back for you’.
Or, ‘You’ve journeyed with your mother for some time. Now it’s time for you to come with me on a journey. I’ve much to teach you.’
Life is a precious gift, and to our knowledge, it has scope. It’s not endless.
To desire something with all your heart and being, yet to say no to it, is truly a great crime.
When one is told they can’t do all in one life time, what is the reaction?
To order and prioritize one’s interests, values, desires, hopes, dreams.
Why?
Because if one understands what one values most, one can decorate each day with one’s highest interests, goal, values.
What is implied by the motivation to prioritize your time?
That you love life. That you respect it enough, to want to do it right, in spite of whatever adversity is thrown your way.
If I were to describe the most fundamental aspect of my being, it would be of one who loves existence. That is my core and inspires and molds EVERYTHING I do.
Stressing over death and it’s impact, is again a perfect illustration that one is a healthy loving being. Well adjusted to living.
Suffering highlights malpractice. When one suffers, it’s because a core need is being neglected or abused.
Suffering is a blessing - Assuming one can resolve the source.
To deny your highest ideal, is to say you’re not worth it, or life’s not worth it. Both of these are wrong. We’re all beautiful, powerful beings and life is a gift beyond measure. And we can give that gift to others. We can create a new living being, a universe - can give a gift of immeasurable value to others. And live amongst others - sharing, maximizing and respecting the gift. To grow and journey together, hand in hand, hearts in unison.
This is the value of Life.
Again, I love all of you and I hope you can share the meaning of these words with me.
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(This was a copy & paste from my response to Magnus Anderson in this thread On the Value of Death)