Well if you must know a masculine woman would be a rarer thing than a masculine man, so something more interesting (for me anyway, as I am drawn to the strange, unique, and often forbidden).
Let me ask you: would it would be of an even lower level to have some power over a horny woman when you’re a man, if this is so commonly and easily done?
Would that make you lower than the girl in that video, then? Depends on what I mean as level. Entertainment value, let’s say.
What is it to be a man and have some power over a drunk college girl at a keg party, by comparison to that girl in the video making some acne faced teenage boy or overweight insurance salesman crawl around and bark like a dog?
I find the latter to be far more entertaining, and therefore on a much higher level.
Problem is, as I’ve pointed out before, this drama is contrived fantasy. And fantasizing means: pretending to do what you are afraid to do, or what you want to do but can’t do (for other reasons).
In the former sense a person’s awareness that this is not real should detract somehow from the intensity and fulfillment of the experience. I don’t see how this could be avoided. I don’t see how a man could derive pleasure from pretending to not be able to stop a dominatrix from pissing on him.
This is not really humiliating because the man had the power to prevent it, and therefore he chose to let it happen… and therefore there is no humiliation here. On the other hand, to be literally abducted by a woman, tied up at gun point, and pissed on… well, now you’re talking.
But if erotic pleasure is experienced from this, why would it be called ‘humiliating’?
Doing to someone what they want done to them is anything but humiliating. So, if pleasure is experienced, there is again no humiliation here.
Ya see Smears this is some of the nonsense that goes on with that stuff, and one of the reasons I can’t do it. That, and I have no issues with my mother, so I have no personal female domination fantasies. But I do enjoy finding a real aggressive and quasi-masculine female who can dominate other men… maybe so much so that you could call it a fantasy. A woman like this would be worthy of my companionship… not just a woman I wanted for sex, like other women.
My vision of the ideal female companion involves a delicate combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. My vision of the ideal female sex partner involves almost no masculine characteristics.
A dominatrix for me cannot be sexually stimulating. Thirty seconds into the session and I would be laughing at myself. And I can’t keep a hard-on when I’m laughing, so none of this is going to work anyway.