Bump.
Magsj? What do you think of that scenario?
I will get back to you on that, Nano-B… been busier of late 
Wow, the males in this thread are borderline pathetic.
When I was interested in playing the games with females, it was simple: they tease, I am aware that they tease, so game on.
Sit down with a female who let’s you buy her a drink, have a small chat … then vacate. It is equally vexing for a female to think that she possibly gave a bad signal, or that due to the conversation you found her uninteresting.
Not all prey can be overpowered, some have to be finessed out of their wits … and one thing you’ll learn: far too often, the hunt exceeds where the kill fails. Most females are boring in a relationship context, their tendency towards nesting shows itself very quickly.
You have two choices; learn to play the game better than her, or just don’t play at all. In either case, quit whining about it.
Women tease because they know they have what you want, welcome to humanity.
First off, pastrami sandwich, fuck you.
Yeah, dont play at all, I got it, that’s what i do. I cant stand people who play the game, worse still people who think they are good at the game and pride themselves on it. All this rapper/playa bullshit about get the digits is worse then any whining i will do.
I was illustrating a situation where i did nothing to illicit flirting or attention and it came to me, and it was totally a mixed signal.
My point is, if a girl likes a guy, she should tell them, nothing less. Anyone who plays games with emotions is disgusting and wicked.
Mastriania, how can you pride yourself into tricking a female into liking you by presentation when you still have fecal matter clinging to your anus? Love isn’t about who can fake the best. That is pathetic if you think so.
…all washed down with a sparkling pinot grigio. Mmmm!
To play a guy for sport is kinda evil.
To play a guy because he thinks he’s a player and is trying to get into your pants is justifiable: as you are both playing each other, and know what you are getting in to.
I only flirt with a guy if I know he can handle it: as it’s no fun otherwsie 
Nono, while I despise those who play the procreative courtship games as well… I disagree with you about love, I don’t think love even exists.
Infatuation/love (or whatever you want to call it) really seems to be nothing more than a biochemically based reaction brought on (usually in the brain of a women) by coming into contact with an experienced confident game player.
I’ve already excepted the fact that in order to get a girlfriend, I’ll have to literally learn to act… Because of this, I think I’ll always be a little bitter.
What about people who are genuinely nice, simple people who like you but don’t want to have somebody play a long, easily misconstrued game of dodgeball with the emotions that they’re trying to reserve for you because they’re nice? What about them? Do you ignore them? Do genuinely nice people get the shaft? Why can’t people just fucking talk to each other and stop fucking for the fun of it?
Then fuck off, go have sex with your game-playing conscience, and stop calling people pathetic because they think it’s bullshit and fucking immaturely EVIL for somebody who likes you to fuck with you.
Getting fucked with by a female is like having a carrot on a string in front of your face while somebody silently attaches electrode-laden pliers to your nipples in the guise of carrot-delivery and then removes the carrot, putting it behind a velvet curtain, and turns the electricity on. And I don’t fucking want that.
Who the fuck cares. I only want somebody if I get along with them emotionally, I only get along with them emotionally if they like me as a person, and if I have to put on a goddamned mask in order to get somebody to like me, then I’ll live a life of god-damn celibacy.
What’s the matter nano, put your tampon in crooked? It’s obvious you don’t have any, so see about having a lab grow you a pair of stones, you might actually need them at some point.
What’s disgusting is to listen to a mindless sniveler … “I’m looking for love, I need a hug, and the fat, ugly third graders are ignoring me …”
Doesn’t matter whether you think “females should act like this if they are interested” … isn’t going to happen, except in the rarest of instances. Procreative strategies are proscribed by gender roles, your sniffling doesn’t change anthing.
As usual, you are so busy listening to the victimhood agenda in your head, you couldn’t comprehend the post: I never said I was “a playa”, (try spelling, the word is “player”). It all depends on intent and awareness, and for boys like you, you are out of your league, obviously, because the female matures far more quickly physically, emotionally and intellectually. Learn to play, or settle for the wank.
It isn’t about “morality” … LMMFAOROTFL … “wicked” … stupidity is wickedness, you witless prat, and you are the epitome.
Do the world a favor, suck the barrel, drop the safety and squeeze hard.
There is no such thing as love, but both males and females produce oxytocin, (“love” hormone), as it is an essential genetic development to help with pair bonding for the benefit of progeny.
Nothing to be bitter about, learn about the female of species, be objective about the procreative strategies, and your awareness and ability to see it will improve. At that point, the hunt becomes far more interesting. It is also a numbers game.
Play by play action.
Nice random ass statement that had nothing to do with his statements.
“Nice random ass statement that had nothing to do with his statements.” (As a side point, if you hate listening to him that much, then WHY THE FUCK DON’T YOU IGNORE HIM?)
There shouldn’t be procreative strategies. Gender roles are what we create. “It has to be about who can put an end to the game-playing. The times are too serious; the stakes are too high.”
Intent and awareness of what? This Nietzschean macho relationship-related-dominance bullshit is too fucking much. The fact that females mature quicker than men doesn’t have anything to do with anything.
Hmm. I beg to differ. If somebody is playing the heartstrings of a person that they like, even in a way that is going to cause the unwitting person pain, that’s mean and immoral.
“Nice random ass statement that had nothing to do with his statements.”
LMMFAOROTFL … I’ll clean you off a seat on the “whiner’s wagon”, right next to nanopuss.
There is no such thing as “evil”, that’s just a weak justification for inadequacy in the face of a superior opponent, and rationalising your loses.
Oh, so angry, look at all the profanity … LMMFAOROTFL. Celibacy sounds like a good option, we have enough mindless hominids around the globe, we don’t need any more. Definitely, a sound plan, stick with that approach.
If you are lucid and rational, you don’t “get fucked with” by a female. You see it coming, and laugh it off. I’m married and still have females that flirt with me, even fully knowing I’m married. I’ve had one or two even try to push the envelope, and I just laugh, and laugh, and laugh … it’s a game after all, and games should be entertaining.
My next big laugh comes when I get divorced, because marriage strategies don’t work any better than procreative strategies, and unlike certain humans, I learn as I go through life … makes it easier that way.
Play by play.
Nice random ass statement that had nothing to do with my statements.
No; there is; if something gives me what I want, it’s ‘good,’ if it takes away, it’s ‘evil.’ Simple, really.
Nice random ass statement that had (almost) nothing to do with my statements.
No; to me, it isn’t a game. I don’t see relationships as games. I’m not trying to compete with the person I’m with.
Nice. Irrelevant.
Simple really, no there isn’t. It is a hollow value judgment predicated upon personal biases of what adds to or takes away from your personal agenda. It isn’t an extant condition with tangible qualities.
That’s because you are emotionally and intelletually inadequate, and unable to understand the “rules of the game”. All life is competition, and nothing else.
No, it’s just your way of stating obviously that you can’t win, and conceding defeat.
Factual, I wouldn’t have any expectation that you would find learning in life to be relevant … LMMFAOROTFL … “Your Honor, the Defense rests.”
LMMFAOROTFL … =D> =D> =D> =D> =D>
note to self: that is worthy of self-highfive … gratify self with highfive after post
Similar to language, right?
No. Survival is competition. Having a relationship isn’t necessarily related to survival.
Nah. It’s me choosing not to respond to an insult.
Actually… I DO find it relevant. It just wasn’t relative to what I WAS SAYING. OH! OH! OH! Wow. I get tired of being cocky pretty easily…
Umm, no. Linguistics are symbological constructs used to translate metaphor, (initially metaphor was associative of our position in nature, but was forced into associative social positioning), metaphor is need of expressing the dialectic and abstraction of the “I of me”, which was purely a genetic development for survival.
No evil in there, and none to be found.
Ah yes, let me guess, there is some “mysterious force” that makes the human different from every other organism on this planet.
News flash: your organism has only one reason for existence; replication. Which is why survival is actually necessary, and all attempts at breeding are to fulfill that biochemical agenda, that you are oh so blissfully unaware of in any form.
The only reason you feel the urge for a relationship, is so your genes can compete on the world stage. You survive to replicate, in order to survive, you must compete. Failure to compete, means genetic failure. Which isn’t always a bad option … LMMFAORTOFL …
note to self: more personal gratification after posting
They have tutors for reading comprehension, who could also teach you about linguistic devices … you might want to look them up.
There’s definitely a general standard, wether it be culturally constructed or based in womens genetic hardwiring.
Women appear have a predisposed attraction to certain types of men ‘‘The ones who fit the ideal standard’’.
The the problem is that many of us start out much further away from the center bullseye of this ideal, while some already fit it, others will have to change so much more of themselves while attempting to fit the standard, that it warrants bitterness.
The typical advise often heard is ‘‘just be yourself’’, for many of us being ourselves involves being someone that women aren’t attracted to.
Its interesting this post - has become so…
I’m not one who has ever played games. Not that I was conciously aware of doing anyway. I make it very clear if I like someone, and do NOT flirt with those I am not interested in. (that however doesn’t stop the guy thinking I like him just because I talk to him however - talking does not equate to flirting… its very different! - guys, learn body language).
It is an unfortunate truth that life is competitive. It is survival of the species - the reason we are here is to replicate, is indeed true. We have this chemical thing ‘love’ which is what makes us reproduce - if one is to get really cynical about it all. It doesn’t make ti feel any less real though.
Women have the same problem as men though - ‘Just be yourself’ - and if you don’t happen to be a size 8 leggy goddess with blow job lips, then you don’t fit the man’s ideal either. Not alot you can do about it if you don’t fit the ideal, apart from major surgery. Guys have a MAJOR advantage over women, in that women are generally NOT as visual (hardly atall in comparison on the whole) as men are, and we don’t go for looks in the same way as men do. Women’s shaggable value is down to how she looks first and foremost, her ‘personality’ secondary. Women look for confidence and reliability/security mostly. Hell, how many times do you see a really hot guy with a pretty average if not unnattractive female? You see SO many gorgeous females on the arm of fairly dull and or not classically good looking dudes. Confidence and self assuredness is a hell of a lot easier for men to practice, than for a woman to find a new body.
But, then you do get females who do care waht the guy looks like, and males who don’t care so much what the female looks like. But thats much more in the mega minority.
Sexual attraction and replication are 2 sides of the same coin - one is there to aide the other, or why else would just getting to talk to a hot female be such a mine-field in itself?
Indiscriminately getting it on with all and sundry would have no direction/no purpose, and nature doesn’t work that way, ever. 
To those on a parr the games come naturally, and both players are willing victims in the game that lays ahead - you’ll never hear them complaining about how things are as that’s just how it is, and acceptance is good - what looks like an evil game of the heart to most: is the opposite to those that can play a good game (the game being a natural filter for replication.)
At least SHE understands … that’s one. Only leaves about 7.79 billion to go … ::sigh::