Are brethren. Bestial brethren.
Ever feel like a slobbering deformity when in bed with a woman?
Absurd. Absolutely absurd.
I’ve never been in bed with a woman (well… not in that way) so I couldn’t tell you, but what’s wrong with a bit of slobbering? 
Ideally, when I am with a woman in bed, I want it to be a playful experience of animalistic drive and spontaneity. At the same time, there should be a sensitive aspect to it as well. I don’t care about inflexible roles or putting anyone up on a pedestal. I wouldn’t be able to stand that.
IMHO, the many aspects of a sexual encounter would be foreign only to an extraterrestrial or to someone whose mind cannot enjoy the freedoms of his body. Nothing human in a sexual experience is weird or vulgar unless it involves a lack of consideration for the partner’s needs. Getting your juices flowing is human, not silly nor revolting. Read the Karma Sutra.
I don’t think the Picasso sketch shows aggressive, imposed sexuality. It simply depicts positions, not ideas. Picasso was very much into representations of subtle, profound reality.
The aggressive male concept is outdated, that is, unless one adheres to the philosophy of DeSade. Sex is ruined by philosophical and religious ideas that forget what it is like to be human.
The image and the OP have nothing to do with aggression.
What it is or isn’t doesn’t prevent you from feeling it’s something else though. Or at least, momentarily experiencing it as something else. 
All such asides limit the expression, which sould be natural, unpremeditated and completely illogical.
Yes, in an ideal world my mind would leave me alone for awhile to get down and dirty. But it doesn’t. I can’t help but think of how ridiculous sex is. The movements, the sounds, the panting, the faces, the need - eurgh!
You havent idealized and conceptualizaed the whole thing. It’s only 50% physical. Banging a skank ass hoe is typically not the best sexual experience and the typical American Pie bullshit reserved for teenagers and immature adults.
you need to take this advice and improve on yourself personally
Fortunately I don’t understand the American Pie reference. But this wasn’t about skanks or the mere physical. So much for your advice. Meh.
Either way. It’s past.
Nothing is past unless you succumb to sloth and complacency. 