He’s gotta be alpha, or he won’t be able to cope with me, my family, or my world - right now, I’ll settle for no less than a 10: if I remain single, so be it.
I’ve settled for less before: which is why it’s never lasted, and I don’t like dating too many guys in one life-time!
Here’s one odd thing I’ve discovered about 10s… male 10s are great. A male 10 is smart, strong, confident, funny, etc. etc. A female 10 though is mostly just looks (from a guy’s perspective). Most female 10s are assholes…now that’s fine and all if us males are just looking to get laid, but when it comes to a relationship, many women 10s just don’t work out. They’re too much upkeep; they require lots of money, emotional/mental competition to stay loyal, and often in the end, they’re no more intelligent than any other woman out there.
So for males, when it comes to a serious relationship, I believe the 1-10 scale breaks off into more detail… say 1-10 for attraction, 1-10 for personality.
it’s hard for me to retain a “platonic” relationship with women since i see nearly all of them( besides family of course) as potential “mates”(by that i mean copulation buddies). still i respect them a great deal and i guess i’m a feminist( but that’s mostly due to egoism)
ideal mate:… triracial multibillionaire europarliamentary nobel laureate glamour model art critic chess grandmaster domestic sciences academic
Lets see; He has to be mostly presentable in public with his manners.
Must be able to do more than scratch, burp and fart during a conversation with me.
Can dress himself with out looking like he stepped out of a drunk closet.
Know how to urinate in a toilet and can find a new TP roll without asking.
Be able to hold a job for longer than a year. Hmmm, let me say that he actually must want to work.
And most important; must love me and all of my faults forever.
After that anything on the plus side is gravy or icing. I married a guy just above average on all of those qualifications except the last, he scores perfect on that, so I am happy.
There are some pretty high standards here. What are the odd on fulfilling them? A trillion to one? How about just having a a 10 as be able to breathe on their own,walk without help and talk coherently. Higher standards means a greater fall.