To make this clear, Both Declines are negative, which means both are potentially bad, risk taking, or definitely bad. Later on I explain the Benefits of a relationship.
///////Positive Decline///////////
Looks, Appearance, Attractiveness;
1)You are never going to get the hottest girl, of course.
2)You are settling, compromising, negotiating.
3)You have to meet certain spoken or unspoken qualifications when it comes to women. Which are;
4)You have to have physical attributes and qualities.
5)You have to have certain mental characteristics, character, charm, personality, values, beliefs.
6)You have to be affluent, possess material things, monetary currency, money, car, house, acceptable job.
///////Negative Decline/////////
1)Your worries, concerns, fears. Which are;
2)She might possess lack of qualities,
2)She might be character defective.
3)She might lack the upmost important virtues of loyalty and honor.
4)She may have an addiction.
5)Your fear of her being unfaithful, cheating, basically being a dishonorable whore.
6)Divorce, The divorce rate is at a reported astoundingly high rate of over 50%.
7)Financial Repercussions after the trauma of divorce.
Child support bills having to be paid for a child that may not be yours as a result of infidelity.
9)Possible physical harm to yourself or your property as a result of divorce not resulting in her favor.
9)You commit suicide after being horribly emotionally involved and having true feelings.
10)Child simply may not be yours and you never know about it.
11)Yours and hers insecurities.
12)Possible Arguments, yelling, cursing, screaming, fighting.
13)Your arrest and jailing for domestic abuse.
14)Inequality. I may be wrong, but I believe with some type of conviction, that women seek a man superior to them. Some say this is a myth and there is a precise name for this phenomenon.
And here we go, the benefits.
//////Benefits All Positive Incline////////
1)Love and sex
2)Companionship
3)Children