ok, so this dude, well i just found out that he’s been dating a girl for 3 months and is moving closer to her. then i stopped answering his calls and then when i finally picked up he was distraught. he said that he was attracted to me and he wanted to get to know me and liked talking to me and wanted me in his life.
this is some crazy crap here. WTF!
How old are you ICE? Post a picture and if you’re pretty I’ll give you good advice.
Actually, Ice, it’s not really that crazy. Trust me, that is not exactly crazy shit.
Just be careful. Dudes lie a lot.
I don’t lie. But I also don’t get laid.
I could say this too.
I wouldn’t trust that guy. He obviously is more attracted to that other girl. Why do women like being second? I don’t understand it, and I wouldn’t accept it myself. Perhaps I know little of female psycology.
well, im a virgin…but still…i mean…uh i dont know
A relationship with lots of drama is a bad one.
Hah.
Ice-Keep away from social drama at all costs
Choose better men. Aim higher.
One of those nights eh?
I hear ya. She told me she blacked out too.
Do some reasurch find out what the deal is with his relationship to the other girl. After all it could be a misunderstanding. If you think hes playing you forget him or beat him at his own game 
Unlucky, I dont lie and I do get laid, but it is by the same woman hehe
I don’t lie and I DO get laid. getting laid is not about lying for… the …love…of…god!!! Getting laid is about confidence, (no B.S. artificial confidence) just being who you are, and taking it chill YO!!! … and you will then probably get laid with someone of your similar looks, and social status… given that you go to places where people meet others and chances of getting laid are more probable, like bars and parties, … not churches, coffe shops or walmart … ok??? (though that could happen, but is way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way less probable…) 
…anyways…
yes, well I know a lot of dudes are lyers or a “white lyer,” as a girl, you MUST know that. Just b/c they say something doesn’t mean that they mean that, …especially if the male is under 25.
If he says he wants to be with you, of course he is telling partial truth, He does, but he probably wants to be with you AND the other girl … AND possibly other broads ok? So he will tell partial truths to make that happen.
If a guy really loves or likes you, his actions will show it. He won’t be perfect but you will know, and after dating a few bro’s. You will know the difference.
Nothing is more blinding and causes people to do and believe irrational things mose that infactuation, love, lust and sexual comfort. LEARN THESE THINGS WELL OR IT WILL COST YOU SOME OF YOUR SKIN. TRUST ME!
some of these articles are a bit cheesy, but the generals are fucken imperative to know. Many other wise very rational people still fuck up relationships b/c they don’t understand what they are feeling and how to have it enhance instead of fuck up your life…
dating.lovetoknow.com/Love_Relationships
advocatesforyouth.org/youth/ … ealthy.htm
He is calling me ALL the time! Sometimes twice a day. he wont leave messages. then i dont call back. then he calls again the next day! OY!
So tell the guy to fuck off.
…shall I be the plain speaker here, and say he wants a fuck - either you’re up for it, or you aint?
… the choice: is yours!