I want to thank all of my friends here (and staged enemies), for the wonderful opportunity to have shared minds. Sharing minds, even in the most contentious sense, is a blessing for all. Though we take our stands on issues, ideas, thinkers, and take it understanding that others will necessarily oppose us, we must do so passionately, with conviction, with a stake in it—this is not because we are right, but because in trying to be right we force others to take themselves and us into account. It has been a philosophical blessing to have shared in that experience with all of you, to have shared the rough elbows and hands that make us think, as we push against what makes sense. You, all of you, have improved my life with your constant contest with me, the ways that we have, together, jarred truth from our lives, and seen it there, floating before us, if only for a moment before it vanishes. If I have caused any of you pain or sadness in my method of “combating truth,†I truly apologize, for when I cut at you, I’ve cut at myself. One forgets at times, how invested each of us are in our perspective, even how necessary it is to be invested. There is a tissue, a fabric that connects us, especially when we discuss.
So, I consider all of you here my friends, for we are friends in the making. I am glad to have been spurred by my many discussions here to have come to know what I think better. Perhaps others also have experienced this as well. It is because disagreement is shared that the sharing itself shows its light.
I would list all the fantastic personalities I have found here, each one a treasure, even or especially those I fought most with—I have a unique and personal history with each one—but that would be superfluous, for although some here might imagine that we are not close, or at odds, everyone knows what we have experienced. That is human and precious. Philosophy is not just opinions and not just agreement. It is striving. It is reaching beyond what one just was capable of. One can only do that with the help of others, always with others. And that is why I thank you, each of you.
With sincerity,
Kevin